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commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
1 points

YES, avoidance has been one of the most tiring and frustrating aspects of my life and I truly just dont want to feel the pain anymore. I think I've gotten to the point where the pain and indignity of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
1 points

Thank you, I truly appreciate your kind words....

commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
1 points

Thank you for the suggestion, I have a local NSA chapter that I go to occasionally, I think that the other day I was just particularly frustrated with people acting like jerks in college....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
1 points

I would love to hear about your experience it sounds pretty interesting, is it Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy focused?...

commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
2 points

I understand and I agree, I think my problem is being kind all the time and caring too much, this could largely be driven by insecurity about my speech, but I also think it's because I'm just an ideal...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
3 points

I'm with bearZero. I think getting older and seeing myself as an adult helped me. It's not that I actively tell myself "go out there, be yourself, and everyone else be damned", I just stopped thinki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
6 points

First I want to say that you are not alone and that your feelings of anger and resentment are completely valid and understandable. My younger brother stutters, and I have watched him go through differ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Advice OfferedHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
2 points

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commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
3 points

www.westutter.org Find a chapter, go to that chapter meeting. You are NOT alone!...

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Validation & EmpathyResearch & Resources
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
3 points

After almost 20 years of stuttering I will try a very promising 10-week stationary therapy at a hospital that also deals with anxiety and the shame that stutterers experience (Starting in april). I wi...

Therapy & Professional
Seeking TherapyTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
3 points

True. Not caring has helped me speak more fluently. I used to care about how people felt; like you said empathy. Now I try my best to not give a damn. You won't see that person again so why care? WE a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
1 points

I stutter in both english and spanish....

postr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
10 points

Amazing 2002 John C. Harrison speech in London. Really puts things into perspective, there is much to learn from this man

Amazing 2002 John C. Harrison speech in London. Really puts things into perspective, there is much to learn from this man ...

Community & Support
Research & Resources
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
3 points

Immense Anger towards it All (Covert Stuttering/Rant)

Immense Anger towards it All (Covert Stuttering/Rant) I am a covert stutterer....kinda. I would classify myself as semi-covert in that I no longer use any techniques, substitutions, or secondaries suc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2014
1 points

Thank you so much. This was really encouraging....

commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2014
1 points

Thanks! The date is on Wednesday :) That's really great to hear though! Keep it up!...

commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2014
1 points

Even though I would never wish it upon anyone it's nice to know people go through the same struggles as me and are able to overcome it. We arnt alone :)...

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Validation & EmpathyPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2014
1 points

Even though I would never wish it upon anyone it's nice to know people go through the same struggles as me and are able to overcome it. We arnt alone :)...

Community & Support
Validation & EmpathyPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2014
2 points

That's so cool to me. I went through the same cycle as you, almost exactly. My first name is easier to say than the name I go by, so when I'm ordering food and I need a name I usually say that. When t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2014
1 points

I know exactly what you mean. If you know somebody with a stutter, then maybe you should be careful to not insult other people who do. I mean I guess since people who don't stutter never deal with it ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
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