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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

I think this is pretty common for stutterers. At least for me, it's definitely the case. The people I know well are already aware that I stutter and don't even react to it. There is zero pressure, no ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

Amazing read!...

commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

Hey thought i would reply as a college student myself, finishing my bachelors this year. Look at it kinda like this, all the low-lives and assholes which is the main part of people who actually look ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
4 points

My blocking (and probably yours) is caused by a lot of tension in my body. My speech therapist (who I have been going to for the last year) has pointed out that when you block- you do in fact tense up...

Speech & Stuttering
Physical Tension
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

Thanks, this has been the most informational response yet. I guess what you get out of it depends on what you put into it. Thanks so much for the great insights....

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

From my experience and from talking to others who used to be terribly disfluent but have since gained near 100% fluency.. anxiety does have a pretty significant role. For me, I know I'd never stutter...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

Similar to HS really. Most people just are a bit confused by it the first time they hear you stutter then just accept it. Occasional laugh the first time (I just stare them down for a bit). You just d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

They knew, but my closest friends just didn't really care that much. ...

commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

yeah i get that...did people know that you stuttered? Not one person, aside from my parents who half way dont believe me, know i stutter...ive gotten so good as word subbing that its second nature. it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

Plenty of my friends in high school had speech/anxiety disorders. One couldn't say the letter "r." One was a stutterer, although not as bad as me. Another had OCD, and would sometimes repeat what he s...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

High school (and middle school, Jesus... bad memories) can be hell for stutterers, but I'm telling you, the older you get, the less people give a fuck. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
3 points

Don't just announce it, no. And don't forget, you're not Seekere, the stutterer. You're Seekere... who happens to stutter. Don't let it define you. ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

I really hope so...I just don't see a time for instance, where I'm going to a party or bar with friends and girls that telling them that I stutter is socially acceptable...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
3 points

I can't speak for every college in the world, but you would be surprised just how little people care. My stutterering has decreased quite a bit in the past year. People are just nicer, more approachab...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

what was it like socially with a silent block? did it inhibit you in any ways?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
3 points

Yep, just finished freshman year. ...

commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

what was college like? how did your stutter affect you socially? (hs senior here)...

School & Work
School & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

I try not to over think things. I am just out of college and being in the work environment is interesting to say the least. I have my good days and bad days with my stutter. Put me on a spot in a meet...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

thanks for the words...are you a college student?...

commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
3 points

Pay attention to your breathing. I started noticing that whenever I hit a block, my lungs would freeze up. Take deep breaths and, of course, always talk on the out-breath. ...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & Breathing