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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2014
3 points

If ever I stutter and they can see me and it goes on for over 30 seconds (including mouth disfigurement) I just stop talking and say a random word like "banana" then walk away. Let them deal with the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2014
3 points

Definitely helps things that i cant say without stuttering or get stuck on comes out much easier in a joke...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2014
3 points

I have always been the class clown to some varying degrees. Comedy is all in timing, well shocking people is all in timing, which can yield comedy and that's exactly what I took advantage of. In recen...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2014
2 points

If you block on r, and can't get Randy out, go with "I'm Randy" to slide into it. Fuck stuttering!...

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2014
1 points

well, which would you rather: not say you name, or say your name with a bit of repetition? try the "sliding into" thing. trick is not to apply too much pressure to the problem itself, i think....

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2014
1 points

Usually I just excuse myself and try to say it again, and if the second attempt fails I say that I can't say it and apologise (is that ironic? It amuses me a little). In general my block is worse with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical TensionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2014
2 points

well I abbreviated highschool because I don't live in america, so there aren't any toastermaster meeting or NSA group and I highly doubt a therapist or speech therapist would help either( I don't want...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2014
1 points

I don't think there's anything wrong with avoiding if you're that mentally tired. I get it as well. I think what you can consider are all the interactions -- you can probably do some of them via text ...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2014
1 points

one of my favorite quotes about this comes from the stuttertalk podcast. It goes something like this: "Stuttering is hard work, not stuttering is even harder." I get it. Talking is exhausting. Physic...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionEnergy & Biological RhythmsMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2014
1 points

dont let it run your life man, i go out of my way to not avoid any speaking situations because the more that i do the easier it becomes....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2014
2 points

Thank you for your reply, I am quite tempted to go for speech therapy, especially if, as you say, the emphasis is on the social, mental and latent aspects, as this is certainly where I need the help. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2014
1 points

I so know what you mean about the wave of fluency. Its how I get through the majority of sentences. However, it's been so ingrained into me that this no longer works with my surname... The same goes f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2014
3 points

Word substitution is a very common trait that people who stutter have. In fact, we spend a LOT of effort (physical/mental) on trying to hide our stutter and word substitution and avoiding situations i...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 13, 2014
2 points

Need help with my unusual stutter

Need help with my unusual stutter Hi Reddit, I have had a stutter ever since I was a little child and thankfully it has all but passed now. In fact I can usually speak perfectly fluently and eloquentl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2014
2 points

That's normal for me as well. I get annoyed when I'm stuttering in front of friends because I am *supposed* to be more comfortable around them. But then again, they don't mind as much, so it's not som...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2014
1 points

My friend who stutters went for about 1-2 months and said they didnt really do much. The main difference is that around my friends im like 80-90% fluent, but if i have to ask a question/present/ etc.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentMedication Inquiries
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2014
1 points

as i just mentioned, i never saw that link about their stuttering event. that was a new thing brought to the table. what nagged me was someone seemingly suggesting getting better at stuttering by pra...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2014
1 points

This whole exchange is predicated on your declaration that the advice to seek out toastmasters makes no sense. So we're starting from an aggressive place. But whether or not you've been intentionally...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2014
1 points

It's because your trying not to stutter. It's like a volcano building up pressure until in finally explodes....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
1 points

didn't see that link before. are those people mentioned speech therapists (stuttering-wise)? i actually was unsure if OP was a stutterer, but i found out by asking, which sets a certain context. i d...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal