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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2015
2 points

You want to hear a joke? I've taught oral English for over five years despite my horrible speaking (it's not a stutter, I don't what it is, I'm a member of this sub because it's one of the few places ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2015
5 points

Speaking in another language can sometimes feel like taking on a different role, which can alleviate some or all of the stuttering. But it'll most likely end up being susceptible for stuttering eventu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterJan 27, 2015
1 points

I HATE USING THE PHONE.

I HATE USING THE PHONE. I don't have a really bad stutter most of the time, but it almost ALWAYS happens on the phone, even with people I'm incredibly comfortable around. Sigh....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2015
1 points

I don't remember what they were called but a few: 1) Block or stutter on a word? Stop midsentence and slowly repeat the word and continue on in the sentence. Felt so awkward doing this, so only did i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2015
2 points

I just wish Ruth Mead, or Linda Rounds ( wrote a similar book), John Harrison, etc came out of the dark and did an interview or set up a website. You will find these people in a yahoo group posting s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Situational Variability
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2015
1 points

It does repeat itself a lot, but I'm a fast reader and often miss points. I think she hammered everything home very well. Personal opinion, but I see where you're coming from. I can see how the speak...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2015
1 points

I've read it a few weeks ago .I didn't liked the way it was written (too much stuff repeating over and over again) but i agree with the ideas presented there .I noticed that when i don't think about w...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2015
1 points

Thats the thing i thought about that too, i was like why couldn't i have a name i could pronounce easier but thats bullshit. People who speak normally don't have troubles pronouncing certain words, th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2015
1 points

I would advice against that. I know a few people who did that, only to end up stuttering on their new name eventually....

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Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2015
1 points

I'd say 50/50. I sometimes use circumlocution, but I've been trying to force myself to say what I mean and be comfortable with my stutter. I'd say I have mild stuttering. For several years I hardly st...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2015
1 points

I know.. I'm thinking about changing my name to something easier to say once I move states for just this reason. If it is all mental though, how did it present itself in the first place? The whole thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2015
1 points

Edit: I also am someone who is fast in the things he does, Like for example I am/was supper hyper as a kid and I like to get things done fast but not normal fast because I always would walk faster tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2015
3 points

to OP: not being happy is not because of your stutter, its because you are 17. if you didnt stutter you would think you were too tall, too short, too smart, too dumb, or anything else. we are socia...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2015
1 points

personally, i have my down moments about it (just look at my post history in this sub) but nine days out of ten it simply doesnt bother me. dont get me wrong, it sucks when you order the burger when ...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2015
6 points

I rarely ever have people make a comment when I stutter when giving my name. A couple of times I can remember someone asked me if I forgot my name, and I just kept going till I got the word out. I fel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2015
1 points

I think that makes sense. I usually like to announce it to people when I first meet them though, I think it not only makes things easier for me but it also helps people to understand stuttering. Jus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2015
3 points

I either just continue saying my name or i'll give a small head shake and then go back to finishing my name. Sometimes i'll say no and go back to finishing my name. There's no anger in it and they usu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2015
1 points

I used to sell on eBay and would always contact them via chat but since they took that off, I would never call them :(...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2015
2 points

You *have to* endure and you *have to* push yourself each time further and further. And you will get there eventually, you just need to focus and find your specific way how to get rid of it. As I men...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2015
2 points

Just not talking wont get you anywhere. I will also have my 20th birthday this april and yes these escape situations are really annoying. I know I could do better, but I dont because of my stutter, f...

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