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I know this is a old post but I stuttered as long as I can remember, worse as a kid but got a little better as I got older (33 y/o now). I went to college and graduated with an undergraduate in physic...

How do I stop the negative self-judgment every time I stutter?

How do I stop the negative self-judgment every time I stutter? It seems like my mind is constantly evaluating: is my speech good or not? I use some fluency techniques right now.. If I speak well,...

Yea bro, I think what’s happening is that you felt so rushed to speak and pressured, that all your thoughts couldn’t be expressed at once. And it created a bottle-neck effect, where your words couldn’...

ay thank you! i’m happy to hear you’re doing better mate that’s really good, it’s hard to get out of that dark place and it seems like you’ve smashed it you should be proud. i’m going to definitely st...

Did anyone else start stuttering from arguing with a toxic family?

Did anyone else start stuttering from arguing with a toxic family? I started stuttering in 2018. My family just moved and we moved into an apartment. We used to live in a townhouse and had our bedroom...

Blocks make me judge myself more harshly—repetitions make me judge others more harshly....

I feel you. I’m 33. It still sucks. Honestly at this point it’s not so much about being embarrassed, it’s just super frustrating....

There is no redefining a life time of endless humiliation. The worst is all the grifters promoting fake cures. Nothing no works. No one knows why it happens. No one knows how to fix it. No one gives a...

For me, it’s both. It’s a curse because there is no greater anguish than having something in your heart you know is worth saying, and literally not being able to say it. It’s also the worst when you k...

Pushed myself to order something out of my comfort zone in the drive through and failed miserably

Pushed myself to order something out of my comfort zone in the drive through and failed miserably i had a fine day at work talking to people without a single issue and my mom asked me to go to kfc to ...

Yeah, I didn't communicate with him that my personal goals with the presentations weren't to have a cute costume and scary background music to present my poems, and instead be more comfortable with pr...

That stutterer might have bad experience with people being a*hole to him and they became so fed up they happen to be a*hole at you. That's not a good thing to do but maybe they just reached their ment...

I mean I can understand why that person may be a**hole. Having a stutter can be frustrating that can cause a lot of negative emotions within one self. Most of us learn to have a healthier mindset abou...

Asshole Stutterer

Asshole Stutterer Usually everyone that I meet that stutters are the nicest people. I would say about 90%. But rarely I'll meet an asshole that stutters. And I'm like "how do you even exist". I'm thin...

I remember the original trauma

I remember the original trauma Today I went to the barber shop because it’s my first anniversary and we’re staying together for the weekend. Shave it all off. Trim my beard. Barber gets to my upper li...

Just give up man, give up on everything focus on building yourself. Be selfish that'll give you true resilience to how society treats stutterers. She'll reject you 100% because it's statistically prov...

Maybe it helps, if you tell him to listen to his anxiety to become tolerant against it. Maybe, if he becomes mad at himself, just notice these thoughts and feelings and realize that this increases his...

I don’t treat him any differently. I just know it frustrates him because if he stutters he’ll get mad at himself, he’s even told me how he thinks his stutter is annoying and how he hates it. I’m not s...

My dad wants to stop my stutter. I don’t.

My dad wants to stop my stutter. I don’t. I’ve had a stutter since i was 6. I’m now verging on 18. I’ve been with it for my whole life and as much as it sucks at times, it’s shaped me into the person ...

I always internally felt angry with my dad, how He never showed me real interest in my stutter problems. Totally, like doesn't exist. But... talking with Him than I realised that when a person doesn...