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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2016
2 points

Strangers i can barely talk. Acquaintances i cant talk with few impediments. Close friends i can talk fairly fluent. Extended family i can talk with few impediments. Immediate family i can barely ta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2016
2 points

First off, it will get easier. If phone calls are one of the situations you avoid, you can practice talking to people on the app wakie or by calling stores, etc. It's OK to stutter, a lot of people ar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
postr/StutterAug 29, 2016
8 points

Official phone calls!! :/

Official phone calls!! :/ Hello reddit, So I got allocated to this project (IT) which requires to (*sigh) call the customer and update her about the current progress. It is like nightmare becoming tr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2016
3 points

I think the only way to get over it us to consistently put yourself in your avoidance situations. Start small....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
postr/StutterAug 28, 2016
16 points

Stuttering and social anxiety

Stuttering and social anxiety Anyone else have this unholy combination? If so, how do you deal with it or how has it been treated? I feel that they aggravate each other and the therapy I've had for ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2016
3 points

Don't just rely on therapy, try to help yourself too. Figure out what makes the improvement possible and try to bring it to other contexts. e.g. I usually have a few close friends I'm much much better...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2016
5 points

Making smalltalk with a random stranger with no pressure, I freeze up. Interviewing a stranger for a job, no problem. I struggle speaking to family too, and I've always wondered if I never developed ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2016
1 points

Heh, yeah, and that's not really a cure at all, it's a symptom. EDIT: Being silent, I mean. It's forced upon us, in this sense, which isn't curing anything (just removing us from a world we want to t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2016
1 points

Sometimes, I'll anticipate trouble and rephrase. Sometimes I can manage if I hesitate slightly before continuing. Other times, I'll just power through it, in stubborn spite of block/repetition, if I ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2016
1 points

For me at least, I used to try and avoid stuttering by using synonyms and other vocabulary that would transition me away from danger-syllables. Sometimes it would work, and sometimes I would work in m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 26, 2016
3 points

When you know that you are about to stutter, what do you do? What has helped you?

When you know that you are about to stutter, what do you do? What has helped you? I tend to stop, try to say the stuck letter quietly and continue normally once I can say it. It can happen that, when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesListener Reactions+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2016
1 points

The other guy gave great advice, I'll expand on his third point. First off, he's right, most of us on here will likely stutter, at least to some extent, for the rest of our lives. That leaves us with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2016
1 points

Oh man, this is a tough one! If you tell people you stutter you elicit a certain response. If you keep it a secret then it could give wrong signals to people e.g "does this guy/gal have problems??"....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterAug 23, 2016
3 points

My stuttering has gone worse.

My stuttering has gone worse. It wasn't that bad just 5 months ago. I'd only struggle with some letters like w, a, b, m. After I start the sentence I'm gonna say, it's all good from there and I'd carr...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2016
1 points

When you fight your stutter you fight yourself. You're telling yourself a bonafide part of you is wrong and bad and needs to be eliminated (you can't just eliminate and stop stuttering). Accepting you...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2016
3 points

I don't know how I feel about this. A month ago I was severe to the point of being physically unable to order at a restaurant or cafe... this happened multiple times. I would want a coffee - struggle ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2016
1 points

No my point was you shouldn't lie about it in the first place, no matter the situation. Otherwise we're all just trying to hide something about ourselves, while also letting the stutter dictate how we...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2016
0 points

Lmfao! You're right about that. However you don't tell them you're shit faced, you tell them you took a shot to calm your nerves. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2016
1 points

So you're in a job interview: Interviewer: what skills do you have? Me: I know how to c-c-c... Interviewer: Is something wrong? Me: Oh don't mind me, I'm just really drunk right now. Something ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2016
1 points

I agree to that extent. At the same time those who have stuttered severely 10/20+ years can't just reverse the irregular movements of the cural diaphragm. Well I mean, you can but it'd take atleast a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more