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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
7 points

I am jealous and you are fortunate you grew up in an environment that allowed you that interpretation. I wish I got this universe!  In my experience growing up 80s-90s he's there to be a joke to eve...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
12 points

Someone legit unfriended me in real life because I said this about someone who was illegally discriminating against me at work and set me up to get fired.  She was awful to everyone and trying for a...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
8 points

Damn, that’s rough. I’m sorry to hear that you’ve had that experience. My advice would be; don’t give up because you’ve only encountered a small set of people. Honestly, I’m not kidding, most adult w...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
37 points

I don’t usually say this..but anyone who makes fun of us should be reborn with stuttering in their next life. Then they will know how it feels....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
19 points

Which women are you approaching? I’m not trying to diminish your experience but I’ve never met anyone over the age of 19 who laughed at my stutter. It’s not something mature adults really do. So I’m s...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
5 points

I can attest, many people don’t know what a stutter is. They’re just ignorant. That’s usually my go to outlet is just letting it go. But sometimes I legit just tell them “hey I stutter just so you kno...

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2024
22 points

How do you you guys getting laid?

How do you you guys getting laid? I'm 25M 6ft decent looking and never got a chance yet, I'm very full of desires which I have to just fap it off. I've moderate to severe stutter and won't lie got r...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
1 points

I love to rub it in peoples face right after I’m mocked that I stutter. They should feel bad....

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2024
12 points

Never do a 'business' degree...

Never do a 'business' degree... All majors under a business degree requires frequent client/customer interaction and majority employers will never hire you for this very reason. Majority members of ...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
1 points

I haven't had someone laugh at my stutter in years. But if someone did I would just look at them and shake my head....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
4 points

Ok the same thing happened to my classmate, he was always mocking me, at the end, he also developed stuttering....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
9 points

It would suck if stuttering happens when you do the callback 😭 . Anyways jokes aside. IMHO there is no point in calling people out. If they make fun of you be the bigger person and move on. Don’t d...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
4 points

Depends on their intentions. The most likely response is "With me it's fine because I'm secure enough about it but never do this because most stutters aren't in a good mental space." If it's outrigh...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
7 points

Depends on who it is. If it’s a friend, I don’t make it a big deal and just say to don’t do that. If it’s a colleague, I say that’s unprofessional and inappropriate. If it’s a stranger, I go on my way...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
13 points

Look at them like they just made the dumbest most obvious joke and say. Really. In a very judgmental way. I'm not saying it works well. I only used it a few times, and i just walked away. It's kind of...

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2024
9 points

how's your response?

how's your response? When u stutter and they make fun of you what do you do at that moment. How do u guys handle it? ...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
0 points

Faxxxx, me bein real n telling dem they shouldn’t blame their stutter as a result of getting no girls n to get in the gym is apparently disrespectful. This sub needs to man up...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2024
0 points

>I know I'm going to stammer like crazy and put everyone at the panel in an uncomfortable position. From my experience its the opposite, normies will often try their best to put a disabled person in ...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2024
2 points

If somebody makes fun of you. Point it out. Say "Who are you laughing about?" If they keep quiet, look at their face point out a deformity and point it out "You have a stain on your face." Make sure t...

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postr/StutterSep 23, 2024
4 points

new language is nightmare

new language is nightmare I'm not native english speaker, but i'm around it for more than 5 years so far, i think i'm good at writing, but when it comes to verbal communication (which i can't avoid), ...

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