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commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
1 points

I have thought about writing it down. It would definitely be easier, but I feel like that would just be admitting defeat to my stutter which I have too much pride for. (Today I gave up on saying the f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
6 points

I’m not sure if it’s called something different these days, but 20 years ago my speech therapists called it “easy onset”. Basically you would go through different sounds that weren’t vowel sounds and...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesBlocks & StoppagesPhysical Tension+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
4 points

I was able to articulate technical jargon at a meeting! Stuttered a little bit, but I got through it with so much confidence...

School & WorkSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerBlocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
1 points

No. You can already practice with pets or in an empty room. As long as you believe talking to AI is not the same as talking to a judgmental person it won't work....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
2 points

I don’t like social situations either, but the key is that you know you can do it when it needs to be done. This is a big step for dealing with social anxiety!...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
11 points

I finally got my first job, as a hotel receptionist. I always was scared that people wouldnt hire me. But i knew i needed to push myself, because noone else will in this world. Suprisingly im doing we...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
5 points

I had a lot of appointments lately due to doctor at my work. Kinda smooth i would say but still hate doing it. Its one of those things I will do just because I have to. If i could do it remotely i def...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
0 points

I just avoid the drive through now. There's just too much ambient noise for me to focus, and the pressure that comes with trying to communicate clearly through a busted microphone/speaker only adds to...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
1 points

No. In junior school I was naturally shy and just had a few very close friends. My stutter didn't fully develop until age 7. Then I began trying to hide it by speaking incredibly fast. So I thus also ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
7 points

Yeah I'm not so bad these days cause I'm old and could give to shits what anyone thinks but I used to have to force myself to use the drive thru occasionally so it just stayed a dislike, not a phobia...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterAug 8, 2024
19 points

dang mcdonalds drive thru gets me every time

dang mcdonalds drive thru gets me every time thank god for the app but sometimes you cant customize it, like little bit of ice cream or asking for a cup of water. i had to order today but the guy kep...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
0 points

I learned a challenging strategy 20 years ago that has worked for me immensly since then. It's called "Advertising" and it basically means that the first thing that you say is that you stutter. The ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
13 points

My family always tells me to find a job where I don’t need to talk and I refuse to, I don’t want to live my life in fear of my stutter...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
2 points

Depends on the person. The more I sense myself actively, the more I tend to stutter. My stutter was inflamed through bullying and teasing. The goal isn't to focus less on my stutter but to focus entir...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
3 points

It’s useless because you’ve already identified yourself as a stutterer meaning you don’t want to improve. You use your stuttering as a tool to get away and not face certain situations. Stuttering is y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
0 points

Same, helps me too. If I don't think about it then I don't stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
4 points

It is difficult but the simplest advice that helped me in Uni and beyond was not to think about it at all.  What happens happens, no one really cares and the worry stays with us.  Imagine people going...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
6 points

I have a mild stutter and I hide it really well, most of the time. I also have social anxiety, so I didn't date that much really. I met my current girlfriend (and future wife) on a dating app and we'v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2024
2 points

I don’t get nervous about stuttering because I don’t expect to stutter. That’s because I only started stuttering a few months ago as a55 yr old and I routinely forget that I stutter. I don’t do it al...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2024
5 points

Really depends how bad, at some point public speaking shouldn’t be their job Unless they’re progressively getting better at concealing it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career