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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2017
5 points

When we order in restaurants, I'll pretend like I forgot what I wanted, then she'll say "weren't you going to order whatever" so all I have to do is say yes or nod or something like that. We're usuall...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Family Support & ConflictAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2017
4 points

Just keep going, man. I think probably everyone in the world by now has a bad story about a first online date. Dating's not always fun or easy. I've had some terribly awkward online dates. Only one of...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2017
3 points

I speak often at my job, sometimes over a radio, and I remember my first job dreading this (I had to use a radio then, too) but after awhile I got over it. Exposure helps ease the burden and makes sel...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2017
1 points

Are you more nervous when talking to clients on the phone? Or are you nervous around phone call in general? If the 2nd, you can try to randomly call people for practice, someone once suggested opening...

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Advice RequestsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2017
2 points

If you don't mind, may I ask how did you address it in your PS? I'm just afraid that I might come off as whining, and making excuses for my lack of leadership EC's...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterFeb 21, 2017
6 points

College student needs some advice regarding interviews to med school

College student needs some advice regarding interviews to med school I've been in the US for 7 years, but because of the chronic stuttering and heavy accent, it's really difficult for everyone else to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2017
3 points

i love how people give up on being social when that is pretty much the only way to get better socially. Even talking to your dog makes a difference,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2017
14 points

I'm sure this isn't for everybody, but I'll share what I've been doing in life. I've completely given up trying to be social. I still see friends every now and again but it isn't a large part of my l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2017
2 points

I used to stutter on just about every interaction with a stranger and would avoid phone calls completely. Now I work in a job where I'm expected to speak up and make myself heard in technical conversa...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Employment & CareerAcceptance & PridePersonal Stories+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2017
10 points

I have good years and bad years for stuttering. Eventually I've learned to calm myself down over blocks and switch out words I block on. It does get better, eventually you stop caring so much about wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2017
1 points

Stuttering has affected my life in numerous ways. I was always bullied as a kid, so I learned to hide my stuttering using filler words or circumlocution. Stuttering influenced how I made friends, my r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2017
1 points

Oh my gosh, you remind me so much of myself. I used to have such a hard time with words beginning with vowel sounds! I do Japanese so it's quite difficult sometimes, what I used to do as a kid is I us...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2017
3 points

Speech therapy could help. I'm a mild/situational stutterer too. Drinks not a problem for me, but maybe losing some control over your faculties through alcohol could be making your stuttering worse. P...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2017
1 points

Like they say common sense is not so common. It is pretty obvious but in my experience we don't do it. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2017
1 points

Wouldn't the first advice be obvious if I did it? I know it sounds silly, and I don't mean to undervalue your advice, I think it's good, but how can I implement it without it being to "out-there"? Or...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2017
1 points

I had the same as you (I think) and I have been speaking completely effortlessly and fluently for the past 4-5 days after a simple ''tweak'', I noticed that I engaged my abdominal muscles while speaki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2017
2 points

My fiance and I are planning on saying, "I do.' The judge or JOP will read a passage that will essentially be our vows. This is what my fiance's brother and sister in law did and it was really sweet. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2017
2 points

My hardest letter is probably E, and to my luck my name begins with E. Introducing myself has always been hell haha....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2017
2 points

I was just going to make a thread about stuttering and phone calls. I prefer speaking to a person face to face, because then they can see that I'm stuttering and won't interrupt me. I tend to block a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2017
1 points

Use vocabulary that you know you wont stutter on. I.e. if you stutter on p's dont use the word problem but use issue...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution