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postr/StutterAug 15, 2024
15 points

I cringe when I hear my voice or when I see a video of myself speaking.

I cringe when I hear my voice or when I see a video of myself speaking. Context. This year I’ve been pushing myself to be more social and to stutter openly especially at work. At work I signed up fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2024
6 points

I worked in a restaurant as a dishwasher a couple years ago. I tried my best to hide my stutter, but ultimately came across as quiet, reserved, and "weird", like the manager said. No one understands h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2024
3 points

I still block sometimes but what helps me is trying to have a peaceful mind. The reason I (like a lot of others) stutter is because we're super self conscious about our speech and our mind goes a 150 ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2024
1 points

Please be aware that some PWS struggle with more than dysfluency - some engage in a variety of avoidance behaviors, up to and including being nearly unable to speak their own name. Upon answering a p...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Access & RightsHiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterAug 14, 2024
11 points

Speech block

Speech block I speech block all the time, but it seems to only be noticeable with people I don’t know/ not comfy with/someone higher in power than me. I’m 20 now and in high school no one even realiz...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2024
8 points

American here. I was a lawyer who worked at elite firms for 10 years (my very high law school grades enabled that) and was an SVP inhouse counsel at an NYSE public company for 11. Retired at age 50....

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2024
3 points

Luckily, I don't stutter when I'm speaking on behalf of a company. It's like a mask. Without that filter, when I have to be just "me" instead of just another employee I struggle with keeping my stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2024
2 points

I graduated nursing school in june and I have a stutter. It isn’t severe but I get bad blocks most of the time when I talk. I’m good at hiding it though so nobody probably noticed. I let my instructor...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
School & Academic LifeEmployment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2024
6 points

Unfortunately people have to work together with you for a lot of time in order to understand you’re clever. All of us have experienced this. When we want to change our job and go to a meeting with an...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
postr/stutteringAug 13, 2024
2 points

My stutter really annoys me

My stutter really annoys me I stutter when I talk to people, if I'm by myself I can talk fast and fluently. I also stutter less with people I'm comfortable with and can be more myself with. I stutter...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2024
9 points

For real. I got a new boss. Only until about a month has passed working with him did I disclose my stutter to him. He was surprised and said that he would have never guessed. That’s something that I’v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2024
1 points

I have something almost like that. If it is something that I am really well educated on, and I know how to explain the topic, I speak more fluently on it. However, if I’m trying to present something w...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2024
2 points

I had a call with a colleague from the Netherlands. A year ago, I wouldn’t have picked up the call and would have instead written to him, saying I couldn’t talk because of some reason… But now, I’m m...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2024
1 points

Sorry, I am not on here often but if you’re still interested: that is a challenge presented to us but that does not mean we can’t overcome! The way I see it, the really good bosses and generally peo...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2024
2 points

Getting a retail job , speaking to customers especially at the tills as a SEVERE stutterer...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2024
0 points

I had bad stuttering when i was 13-15 year old but during that time i moved from Village to City. Made a few friends on the same street. Our connection was sports, if we were not playing we were talki...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Friendships & BelongingSchool & Academic LifeHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2024
4 points

Yep this exactly for me, my stutter as definitely made me anti social,...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Loneliness & IsolationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2024
1 points

That’s great that you managed to power through in what I can imagine would’ve been quite a stressful situation :)...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
3 points

Had to call AAA to get my car towed and stuttered on some information, but powered through and didn’t internalize it....

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
50 points

This is….not necessarily helpful. Most people don’t realize what blocks are, and for many, blocks lead to them being unable to say what they want. Blocks are actually a more advanced form of dysflu...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment