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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2017
2 points

Okay, thank you. How do I go about avoiding those in regular conversation when I'm used to doing it? Now that I'm thinking about it, though, I also will... How do I put this, groan? I guess? Before ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterJun 14, 2017
4 points

I think I am starting to stutter but I don't know quite how bad it is

I think I am starting to stutter but I don't know quite how bad it is This happened once before, when I was like 16, it wasn't bad and went away after a few months. I have no idea why it started happe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Repetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2017
1 points

Thanks. Sometimes for your opinion. I don't try and avoid words deliberately, I'll just swap when I really struggle and like you say be an effective communicator....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2017
1 points

Who wants to spend their whole life trying to think of synonyms and similar words? Try to not substitute And just relax. I've been having a very hard to lately and I've been seeing that if I just rela...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2017
3 points

There's way too many 'just force it! it's avoidance!' comments here. Sure, if you want to stutter a whole bunch around people, go nuts. it's not 'avoidance' swapping words. It's being a better and mor...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2017
5 points

We stutter, which means sometimes we have to make adjustments. I word swap all the time and I don't give a shit if it reinforces the behavior. I have to talk anyways because of my job....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2017
3 points

I'm going to try doing this. It really sucks having to try to think of a substitute in 0.2 seconds and end up using some kindergarten level word(s)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
1 points

Where did you read this, if you don't mind me asking? :) Of course it's alright for you to substitute. We need to communicate, and if we can't, we might as well try something else. But as others have...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
1 points

Sometimes I find myself getting stuck mid-sentence because I'm too indecisive to choose a word, and all the synonyms become difficult words in the moment. Instead I add an adjective or adverb as a des...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
1 points

Yeah, this is interesting. It's a no-no. Usually leads to a different kind of stress and avoidance that most find exhausting and just....like they not being their true self. But if it's not botheri...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
1 points

I was a heavy reader as a child and developed a strong vocabulary. In an effort to make my stutter seem less pronounced, I usually substitute words when I am blocking. I do this with people I don't kn...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
13 points

The best way is to never substitute words, as it will actually add to your problem. Just allow yourself to stutter. Eventually you will become desensitized to stuttering and you won't feel as bad, and...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
2 points

I just make hand gestures and open my eyes wide while saying "ohh, ya know..." then just sort of mumble into it. I think my body language and voice inflection makes them like predisposed to nodding qu...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
2 points

Just to add, forcing it out will only make it harder and will make the block longer. My stutter is mainly blocks and it sometimes can be very severe. Do I sometimes replace words? Yes, but that only r...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
1 points

I usually avoid the words I struggle with. What I find, what works for me, is breathing before saying the word and stretching it out (saying it very slow. It works for me but I never really practice i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterJun 12, 2017
8 points

Block stutter, is it ok to replace words or force the difficult words out?

Block stutter, is it ok to replace words or force the difficult words out? I have read that it's better to try and force difficult words out instead of replacing them with a similar word. Well sometim...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2017
1 points

Yeah, this happens a lot to me. I think it's the added pressure of having to get it right the second time....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2017
1 points

Thought I was the only one the struggled with "R" and "d". When I was young, I went to a speech therapist and she told me I'm fine and said I just need to breathe. Iol good advice but hard to follow. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2017
2 points

Definitely experienced this for a while- mainly because it tends to catch me off-guard. But if I substituted words to say it the first time because I wasn't effortlessly fluent, then it's the easiest ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2017
2 points

From what I understand of your story, don't think there is any reason to be worried. Annoyingly, having a block once or twice with a specific word can turn into a habit *very* quickly due to associati...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques