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commentr/StutterMay 18, 2025
3 points

Hey David, thanks for the comment! Sorry for the misunderstanding, I haven't found a cure to stuttering. I still mildly stutter. I describe myself as a PWS. I will edit my post to fix that. I used ...

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commentr/StutterMay 17, 2025
15 points

Just stutter. Be yourself. Some girls find it cute believe it or not lol....

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commentr/StutterMay 17, 2025
4 points

**TL;DR summary**: *(of the post)* I tried every stutter technique, but it didn't work. Constant loneliness, bullying , exclusion, even by my own family. unimaginable injustices. I survived using my ...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2025
1 points

When you realize people never have us to go through DAILY shame and dysfunction you realize there little laughs and smirks and opinions and suggestions mean NOTHING!!! Being fully yourself and allowin...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2025
1 points

because you're in the here and now and the pure joy makes you not care what other people think I reckon...

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Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2025
1 points

Acceptance is very hard for those especially who‘ve never had to deal with a disability at all. But one lesson I’ve learned a hundred fold after many many years of having a speech disorder is this. Pe...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2025
1 points

Acceptance is not all, but part of the healing process. We tend to see stuttering as a weight to our lives that only brings negative connotations to us. However, there are certain traits that are valu...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2025
1 points

I agree with your definition of acceptance. And it’s so variable it drives me insane! I’m sure we can all attest to that say we were smooth as can be and were invited to an event or to hang out with a...

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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
2 points

Yeah. I wouldn't be friends with someone if they were just tolerating me either. I do not understand enough. Thank you for the perspective....

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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
-3 points

I can see that based on these responses that a stutter is pretty damn tiring. I do not have a stutter, but I know your anger isn not misdirected. And your question; Yes, I have. Or atleast, I tried...

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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
2 points

Thank you for taking the time to write this, It has been very helpful. And I completely understand that I could actually just be an ass. I might need to reevaluate my friendship with this person an...

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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2025
12 points

Honestly, it's cool... you don't have to talk to them. But you can't have your cake and eat it too. Their stutter is part of them. You either remain friends and learn to accept them or stop being frie...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
2 points

Wow! I love this, that's exactly how it went for me. The acceptance part was the best, it's like I finally started to realize my true potential, while before I was limiting myself, now I can fully e...

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commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
3 points

I find acceptance particularly difficult because of how variable the condition is. Some days I speak well and I feel like I can do anything. Other days I have long blocks and struggle no end. It is ha...

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Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
1 points

Being called "cute" in any sense is not a bad thing, and it doesn't make you any less of a man. Grow up....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
10 points

Yes, acceptance will not change the opinions of others but it will change our opinion of ourselves. Of course the mocking will hurt, but the best we can do is speak up for ourselves and say we have a ...

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commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
7 points

My wife said my stutter was cute. We have four kids, the 3rd stutters. He's graduating next week from the #1 high school in the country. I founded and sold a tech company. We celebrate 26 years tog...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
3 points

So I didn't say "acceptance is the only thing that can treat stuttering" then your argument is right. We have to do many things to even get stuttering in control. The topic is acceptance is the option...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
7 points

Acceptance is just one piece. You need to work on reducing unproductive behaviors. You need to replace bad habits with good ones. But if you really accept your speech, regardless of how much or often ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 12, 2025
15 points

The problem with acceptance

The problem with acceptance See the problem with acceptance, it doesn't really solve the problem of stuttering, the habit, the fear, the behaviour, all we have developed because we had stuttering, we ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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