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postr/StutterNov 7, 2024
56 points

College has destroyed the little amount of confidence I had left

College has destroyed the little amount of confidence I had left Wassup everyone! I'm 16m in college (in the uk) and today was one of the worst days in college. We had to read a presentation out to th...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
5 points

About the last part feeling hesitant , something like this happened with me once and the girls basically bitched about me being some weirdo who can't speak shit and just wants empathy from people ( sm...

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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
2 points

It's a common thing with people with disability/special ability . We are aware that our problems will form the core part of anyone's beliefs about us and thus it's extremely important for us to recogn...

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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

If girls around you are behaving like that , better not talk to them , I had similar struggles and I just made myself content with the fact that these petty people will never recognize me as 'normal' ...

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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
2 points

Damn right. I've had friends for 8 years, still begging me to hop on a call or smth to hear my dmbss stutter to say my day went great 😭. Its really a "they" problem...

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Listener ReactionsStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 6, 2024
22 points

Why girls are freaking out when they see a boy stuttering ?

Why girls are freaking out when they see a boy stuttering ? At first, when they don't know about the problem, they stay comfortable around me. When they get to know about it, they freak out and stop b...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

Tell that to my speech therapist I saw two times a week for years, tell that to the countless bullies I fought at school. You can also discount all the time I spent practicing the techniques I use to ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic LifeSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
8 points

Don't forget that people like Samuel Jackson used to stutter. Only ignorants would judge you. Don't be too harsh on yourself and it will go well...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

thank you for this :D , this is the motivation i need, but the best now i can do is to avoid those people who mock me. i don't want to break my mental peace...

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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
6 points

Project manager. As ramp_a_ger said, I just stutter my way through it. If someone makes fun of me, I will publicly shame them. “I was used to being made fun of as a child but it still takes me abac...

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commentr/StutterNov 4, 2024
2 points

This is always so hard to explain to younger people. Almost everybody adult in this sub has been in this situation I’d imagine. I also completely understand how you are feeling. When I was your age I...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2024
1 points

I understood what you are saying so all i can do now is to avoid them as much as i can and stay away from them and ignore them, thanks for your help brother :D...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
1 points

Unless physically threatening i usually push on through with my business. It only have power if you give it energy. Arguing isn't an option and violence is a lack of emotional control without reason....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
1 points

Thank you so much for your help :D, I will keep this thing in my mind and I am wondering what if there is any other option other than ignoring like standing up for myself or something like that...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
5 points

I'm sorry this happened ro you, I had a similar experience when I was close to your age. An adult asked me what my name was, and I replied K..K.. Kelly. Then it was "hi K..K..Kelly! Hahahah. " I told ...

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Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
4 points

Yeah, what they said. Just remember that you are in control of your feelings and actions. No one else. Once you see that, and truly believe it, no one can get to you. The point of bullying is to elici...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
3 points

Bully's are the most insecure people! They try to fill their void by bullying! Keep in mind that these people have no life 😂!! I know those words can get stuck in your head, and it's hard to move on,...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
17 points

First of all, kids are dumb. I know it hurts right now. But, kids are dumb. If they wanted to mock you, they would've found something. If it wasn't for your stutter, it would've been your hair, weight...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 3, 2024
19 points

What to do when strangers mock your stuttering

What to do when strangers mock your stuttering I am 16M, 2 month ago i was playing football in the nearby field and then some other dude came to the same field and asked me if they can join me and i ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
10 points

i either want them to not express a reaction at all or finish my sentence if they can tell what i'm trying to say. i can't handle jokes tbh. i already feel like shit about my stutter and it really cut...

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