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postr/StutterFeb 24, 2018
34 points

Hey guys. I just performed infront of 900+ people on friday. I can finally say I did it. (With long ass story)

Hey guys. I just performed infront of 900+ people on friday. I can finally say I did it. (With long ass story) (Link to video below) I conquered my biggest fear and shit on its grave. It’s my last yea...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
3 points

I've changed my order at a restaurant to something I didn't want just because it was easier to say. I think we've all been there at some point. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
2 points

I have a similar situation , it's like I have to rehearse my phrases before I walk up to a grocery store/food joint so that I don't mess up my order. What really sucks is when -as you mentioned in the...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
2 points

I think all the physical stuff is "extra" things we layer on. Physical things like tension, movements, filler words, etc are all poorer ways of reacting to this disconnect that I feel. I think all of ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
1 points

Here is my story with my public speaking class in my computer science major. We are in the same position, I stutter severely, I had to take a speaking class for my core classes. What I did was not see...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
School & Academic LifeAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
7 points

Yes. I once told someone my name was Mike just because I wouldn't stutter saying it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2018
3 points

Agreed. In the end no one really cares. Understand I mean that in a good way. Someone may make a joke or laugh in passing, but after that moment is over that person will never think of it again. Where...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2018
11 points

Laugh it off. Don’t be offended. Laugh with them. Make fun of yourself before they do. Lighten up. These co workers are not laughing at your character or your behavior, it’s just a silly thing. M...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 21, 2018
8 points

Having a hard time pronouncing big words

Having a hard time pronouncing big words I'm going to school for pharmacy technician and I am having a hard time pronouncing large words such as drug names and diseases. I get made fun of by my peers ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2018
2 points

For me, my breaking point was at 21 when after university I could not get a job because I would completely panic, freeze and block at every interview and could not do a single phone interview at all....

School & WorkCommunity & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAdvice RequestsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2018
5 points

Lack of confidence and some other reason, which I'm not sure what it is. In my case, I stutter when I'm in tensed situation or while speaking English. In my native language, Hindi, I don't stammer mu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2018
2 points

You have what they call "speech block". Unfortunately I don't have a great solution for you. What I do is I change the sentence mid way, substitute words or simply don't say what I wanted to say....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
5 points

I learned to say “My name is Eric” rather than just “Eric” because the “em” sound is easier to slide into without others noticing, at least for me. Also the longer phrase gets my momentum going and th...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
2 points

I have this same problem. Delayed start is a mess for me as well. I am usually a good speaker but I lose the moment when I speak after the convo has almost ended. ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
7 points

I wish it were that simple, I actually find knowing exactly what I am going to say before hand makes it worse. It's a very complex problem which manifests itself differently for everyone. Stay str...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
6 points

Cannot get words out

Cannot get words out Hi guys, I am 20 years old and have been dealing with a stutter/stammer for as long as I can remember. Thankfully the stutter has gotten a lot better in recent years since I hav...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
2 points

I find that I just have to really push myself to start or continue talking. This often then looks like I’m interrupting or talking over people, because of my delayed start :( ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2018
2 points

>started to choose different words that are easier to pronounce in order to avoid embarrassing myself Common tactic of avoidance, but obviously not necessarily a good one. Probably better to stick...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2018
3 points

I feel your pain. No need to apologize. Life is hard as it is, and is even harder when we stutter. It was so hard for me. I used to avoid, make up names, and not do certian activities. Then I went to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & BreathingPositive Therapy Techniques
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2018
3 points

Feeling helpless and frustrated and tired

Feeling helpless and frustrated and tired I’ve had a stutter since I was a child and I gradually got over it until about 8 months ago. It’s come back into my life with a vengeance. It’s been so bad th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more