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commentr/StutterMay 17, 2014
1 points

Yeah.. sometimes I just see people and want to talk to them it's a weird feeling. I'm there staring at them and debating whether I should say something.. my mouth twitches and I say one word and I imm...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2014
1 points

> Once I begin the convo I'm like "Wtf was I thinking". LOL. Man, do I know that regret. Intimately. There are times when that happens where all I can do is stand there and just... shrug. I'm luck...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
1 points

I'm thinking about this a lot with myself right now. Since I've started seeing someone about stuttering and have started addressing my issues, I've actually noticed a pretty dramatic decrease in soci...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
2 points

Yeah, that's how I feel most of the time, and then I wonder how fundamentally different my life would be if I didn't stutter. My anxiety holds me back more than the stutter....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
3 points

I think it goes like this; - We begin stuttering and are aware of it - Since we are aware, we begin to get anxious about it - The anxiety fuels us to stutter more So ultimately, I think the first on...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
2 points

I have anxiety for many things. I'm just an overall nervous person, but stuttering makes it a lot worse....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
2 points

Some people stutter because they stutter. The anxiety of knowing we stutter may in fact increase our stuttering. Many speech therapists now target the social/emotional aspect of stuttering as well a...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
3 points

I'd say my stuttering is due to communication anxiety. I speak fluently when I'm talking to myself or my dog but as soon as another person comes into play and I'm required to communicate with them, my...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2014
2 points

Man you're lucky. I stutter and block like crazy in front of my parents. I suck at communicating with people who are close to me like my parents, sisters etc. Maybe it's because I don't try to hide my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
3 points

It's so hard to tell. I know that once I'm thinking about either, they feed into each other. I try to separate the two, but I'd probably say that the stutter is on my mind more often then anxiety. ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 15, 2014
5 points

"Do you have anxiety because you stutter, or do you stutter because you have anxiety?" I get asked a lot...

"Do you have anxiety because you stutter, or do you stutter because you have anxiety?" I get asked a lot... ... and I just don't even know. What came first, the chicken or the egg? I was diagnosed wit...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

I think this is pretty common for stutterers. At least for me, it's definitely the case. The people I know well are already aware that I stutter and don't even react to it. There is zero pressure, no ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

From my experience and from talking to others who used to be terribly disfluent but have since gained near 100% fluency.. anxiety does have a pretty significant role. For me, I know I'd never stutter...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

Similar to HS really. Most people just are a bit confused by it the first time they hear you stutter then just accept it. Occasional laugh the first time (I just stare them down for a bit). You just d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
2 points

High school (and middle school, Jesus... bad memories) can be hell for stutterers, but I'm telling you, the older you get, the less people give a fuck. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2014
1 points

I really hope so...I just don't see a time for instance, where I'm going to a party or bar with friends and girls that telling them that I stutter is socially acceptable...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMay 15, 2014
6 points

For people with silent blocks: Do any of you guys have nearly perfect, spontaneous fluency around some people, but harder, more calculated fluency around others?

For people with silent blocks: Do any of you guys have nearly perfect, spontaneous fluency around some people, but harder, more calculated fluency around others? When I'm around my parents/close frien...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2014
2 points

You can't let your stutter define who you are. I stutter, and I am a first year associate at a large law firm. My stutter isn't too bad when I am speaking to somebody one-on-one, but it gets pretty b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2014
1 points

Yes! Me too! End of semesters were hard because everyone's behind on something or the other and patience runs thin....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2014
1 points

I feel as if a lot of people assume that stuttering means you're anxious, scared, etc...which obviously don't play well in an interview. One strategy I've used is to bring up my stutter in a funny way...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more