Search

commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
1 points

The customer also argued with my manager so he was busy handling the customer and just ignored his last comment about me....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
2 points

Wow!!! That customer is a total D bag! If I were your manager I would have made that customer leave! Do not need the business from people like that! Don’t think about it again, that customer is over t...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
2 points

I personally would have snapped back at him. I know a lot of people aren't privileged to have a managment team who would have their back for standing up to a customer like that, but IMO you must defe...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
3 points

Not all us are big guys ... walking up to people to physical confront could also lead to other dangerous situations... what if the fellow has a gun or knife ?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
3 points

It was always hard for me. Most of the negativity came from my own parents. I personally don’t talk a whole lot anyway. There are plenty of assholes in society that make things difficult. Negative ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
2 points

Honestly the more comments you get, the easier it is to deal with. I’m comfortable with how I talk, and I don’t take shit from customers. I’m a pretty big guy and was working the cash register, some c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
35 points

Well… 1. Your manager should have defended you, at least informing the customer of your speech impediment. OR, in my case 2. That customer would have woken up, confused, on the ground unknowingly jus...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingPower Dynamics & Intimidation
postr/StutterMar 19, 2023
30 points

How do you guys handle negative comments?

How do you guys handle negative comments? Recently a customer created a big scene at my work and yelled at me saying that I was not even speaking english and that he could not understand what I said...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMar 18, 2023
32 points

So I’m new here..

So I’m new here.. Hello everyone, I’m 20yo male with huge stutter. I found out about this subreddit after frustrating oral exam, im a med student and had never taken an oral exam and got really nervou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2023
3 points

Well I stuttered a lot while conducting it and then went into intense emotional guilt nervous spiral....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 17, 2023
16 points

Really Urgent

Really Urgent I take webinars for my company and I stutter, I think I made a major screw up of myself in front of many people. I know we should own it, but it's humiliating and upsetting. I muster a l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2023
3 points

my own mom makes that joke all the time, then got offended when I told her I stutter more around her than anyone else...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2023
6 points

This one time I was at a party just having light hearted fun with my boys and one of them didn't hear me and said "what?", To which I replied "did I stutter, bitch?" And it came out perfect and I was ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
1 points

My issue was getting people who would hang up on me. I've also had people at dr.s. offices when I'm calling to schedule an apt tell me that I need to call back when I have someone they can better und...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2023
0 points

Yes, and you have made your point. I was just asking a genuine question about something you said. Can't conversations flow in different directions? Anyway, you seem to not actually want to be nice and...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
postr/StutterMar 14, 2023
27 points

My mom got mad at me for being frustrated over my stutter

My mom got mad at me for being frustrated over my stutter I even showed signs of me crying and it seemed like she didn't care. All she did was give me a lecture about practicing my speech and keeping ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2023
2 points

I will always try and introduce myself first so I can go HHHHHhhhhhhiiiii my name is Soloemilia in one breath. But then oh my God when people are like oh I’m sorry what did you say? It’s like— go to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
1 points

I think we all get this way sometimes. Sometimes i get angry at myself even though i know its not my fault. Sometimes I'll be depressed for a whole day after one stutter flare where i needed to comm...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterMar 11, 2023
23 points

to have a speech disorder and not have control or management to a certain point in your speech you must be very strong emotionally because God knows what you can do

to have a speech disorder and not have control or management to a certain point in your speech you must be very strong emotionally because God knows what you can do ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterMar 10, 2023
14 points

I JUST WANT TO BE ABLE TO SAY WHAT I WANT TO SAY

I JUST WANT TO BE ABLE TO SAY WHAT I WANT TO SAY It's so goddamn frustrating. It's 100% worse for me on the phone and I hate that sometimes the person is like oh is there something wrong with our line...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerQuality of Life