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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2014
1 points

I sometimes feel that people might think my Spanish is bad since I stutter and it may seem like I don't want what to say/what I'm saying. It sometimes makes me self-conscience when I speak to other pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2014
1 points

I speak better on the phone vs face to face especially with unknown persons . I think the reason is that i know probably i will never met that person or speak to it again ,so i don't really care if i ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2014
2 points

Same problem, same age, stuttering since I can remember. Fear will always be a factor in our lives. I fear talking to people on a daily basis. Not a moment goes by that I wish I could take that "magic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2014
1 points

CBT(Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) doesn't get enough credit around here. Anxiety doesn't cause stuttering, but stuttering can definitely fuel anxiety. Why take meds for anxiety in hopes to treat stutt...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2014
3 points

I've had speech therapy all of my life man and in the end, it's all about your mindset and what you do with the information, I mean I've retained none of it and never really applied it because I was a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2014
1 points

Trying not to sugar coat anything, but it does and that's what does worry stutterers. Stuttering is usually associated with nervousness, fear and insecurity. Bold, confident, coherent speakers are usu...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2014
3 points

Im in the same exact boat as you and my professional future is fucking terrifying to me. I cant imagine having to give an important technical presentation to my boss(es) once I get a job in an enginee...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2014
5 points

My therapist has stressed to me to advertise my stuttering. It really does work as it lets the listener know you're not a bumbling idiot and it eases your mind that you don't have to hide it and don't...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2014
2 points

Try living in Australia where people are very brutal with it. I'll be at a shop buying a coke and the guy will say "Com'on mate spit it out!" I'll even tell people I have a disability or a stutter and...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2014
1 points

Is this really true? I think a common misconception is that people *always* stutter because of anxiety, but I think there are probably instances where someone can stutter because of anxiety....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2014
1 points

This is really good advice. You might be able to figure a little bit about why you stutter too. I know I was able to. My psychiatrist actually gave me some really good advice. He said that one thing ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2014
4 points

> Do you think speech therapy would be beneficial? I revisited speech therapy this year as a working adult. It helped me understand my stutter and anxieties. It helped me look at my stuttering lik...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2014
1 points

My friend who stutters went for about 1-2 months and said they didnt really do much. The main difference is that around my friends im like 80-90% fluent, but if i have to ask a question/present/ etc.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentMedication Inquiries
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2014
1 points

I'm 19. My speech therapy sessions are pretty infrequent, unfortunately. They try to push this speech technique where you prolong your speech - and I don't really like it (It's monotonous) You can...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Fluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social JudgmentMedication Inquiries
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2014
1 points

It's the relaxion during it, it doesn't need to be loud, nor does it need to be on while I'm speaking. The state of relaxation just empties my head of worries and doubts and I can talk to anyone duri...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
1 points

That happens when you're afraid to speak. Better to stutter than to look like you're gasping for air....

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
1 points

dude. even pro performers have stage fright. You never overcome the fear entirely. You just make your preparation gold. The great Mitch Hedberg wore sunglasses and avoided looking at the crowd while p...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & SubstancesCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMedication InquiriesEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
1 points

For me it's the opposite. When i'm with friends or family it's usually worse, because i don't really care if i stutter or not. But with random people, i guess my adrenaline starts pumping and i stutt...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
3 points

My grandmother who was a moderate stutter for her whole life swears by toastmasters. By the time I came around, she was mild. I stutter, I'm still terrified to go but I know I should. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
2 points

Put an earplug in! I'm serious.. and remember you are your own worst critic. I have dropped several classes before in college when I skim and read the worst word... PRESENTATION. Even worse, presentat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride