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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2015
1 points

I just hate the thought of people laughthing at me but in general I do fine with my stuttering just in front of big crowds where there are a lot of adults who look important I stutter and get ner...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterMar 14, 2015
6 points

How do you feel about talking?

How do you feel about talking? I stuttered when I was a child and it really hurt my confidence/self-steem. I wouldn't speak up much in school or actively talk to people. I pretty much only spoke when ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterMar 14, 2015
21 points

Challenge accepted...

Challenge accepted... Hello there! I'm 17 years old and soon to be a graduate of High School. I wanted to share something spectacular I did today in my Honors English Class. We were given the choic...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic SpeakingSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterMar 12, 2015
3 points

So much anxiety interferes...

So much anxiety interferes... I watched the Spongebob Campfire Song Song episode a long time ago when I was a kid and I tried to sing along to it. I couldn't keep up, as it was going so fast. I fumble...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+2 more
postr/StutterMar 11, 2015
7 points

Does anyone else only stutter on certain letters?

Does anyone else only stutter on certain letters? And only in the start of a sentence too. Like for example, I find it really tough to start a conversation with the letters W and D. And randomly other...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2015
1 points

I've had a "friend" who would do this to me occasionally. It is one of the worst feelings, not just for that moment, but it makes you realise that the person is judging every word you say for the foll...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 8, 2015
4 points

I really hope my future children/child does not have a speaking disability.

I really hope my future children/child does not have a speaking disability. My stutter has undoubtly taught me many valuable lessons about myself as a person and as a member of society. But I truly ho...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2015
1 points

> I'd say most of us have a harder time with people we dont know or speaking to people of authority. For a lot of pws (persons who stutter), we worry about making a good impression or are afraid of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2015
2 points

I'd say most of us have a harder time with people we dont know or speaking to people of authority. For a lot of pws (persons who stutter), we worry about making a good impression or are afraid of list...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2015
1 points

I'm am sorry you have to go through this, my name starts with a B too and also gives me problems. And people take advantage of this to get me. It hurts, but it just take it in my stride. Think o...

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postr/StutterMar 7, 2015
6 points

This might be the worst part, and how do I get past it?

This might be the worst part, and how do I get past it? Been stuttering all my life. With alot of people I´m basicly 100% fluent, in other situations and with some people I stutter like crazy. The wor...

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Helplessness & AgencyPower Dynamics & IntimidationAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2015
1 points

Thanks for the uplifting post. I think being social is a really good strategy in gaining confidence in your speaking. I've dealt with social anxiety for much of my life, and I think my stutter has rea...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2015
2 points

This is how I stutter aswell, more or less. It's pretty spot on. The initiating conversations and asking questions is a killer for me. I just can't make it happen, or I could, but then it would be obv...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2015
1 points

How I see it, you don't know that person on the phone, they have no idea who you are, and you'll probably never see or talk to that person again. So, the only person who knows your embarrassed is your...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2015
1 points

Perhaps it's a self consciousness thing. When one is not self conscious of their stutter because another emotion takes over, they have a tendency to stutter less. I have been in similar situations wh...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2015
2 points

Oh boy....my story is also at your level of embarrassment. So I was at a Barnes and Noble browsing magazines about 3 years ago and I saw the cutest girl with awesome orange shoes on. I spent about 15...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2015
1 points

I have those days too and they just suck. I pray I dont get called on in class or I just avoid all my friends for minimal talking cause even though they all know of course I hate when its really bad. ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2015
2 points

I work in a call center, and I go back and forth all the time. Some days I have no issue speaking fluently, others I struggle with every other word. Realistically, I know that 99% of the people on the...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2015
1 points

Hey there, I've had those days too, still do. On some days I'm fluent as anyone else but on some days for some reason I'll stutter everything I say. For a long time I let it get to my head that people...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2015
2 points

I appreciate your help. But a lot of stutters are exactly opposite of you:-) We stutter more when the spotlight is on us or stutter more when trying to speak fluently. ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment