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postr/StutterOct 8, 2018
28 points

Some advice I want to give from one stutterer to another

Some advice I want to give from one stutterer to another Hey guys, so I've been a stutterer practically ever since I've began to talk. Over the past few months, I've been seeing this speech therapist...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2018
6 points

Same. I jump in there fast and introduce myself first. Hi my name is Starts with a vowel. Once I get that Hi out I can usually coast through the whole thing. Now if they say “I’m sorry I didn’t catc...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2018
5 points

I remember as a kid some old people asked what my name was and I said that I didn’t know, because the first letter of my name is one of the hardest letters for me to start a word on. So I preferred be...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2018
3 points

Uhhhh me too. My name begins with a hard c. Think colic. But not that. The worst is when it comes out cuh-cuh-cuh-rest of name. Or I take a breath and pause first. The number of ppl who say to me “wha...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2018
1 points

try propanolol (anti hypertension medication) that will slow your heart down ease your speech. i dont have any blocks when i use this.... but my tolerance is building. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2018
1 points

try propanolol (anti hypertension medication) that will slow your heart down ease your speech. i dont have any blocks when i use this.... but my tolerance is building ...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2018
1 points

Yeah, we all wish it. There're much I want to say sometimes but I hold back because of that crap. Hang in there....

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postr/StutterOct 3, 2018
5 points

Does anyone know how to increase the delay before Google Assistant/Home responds?

Does anyone know how to increase the delay before Google Assistant/Home responds? Sometimes I block for a bit when saying a command and before I get my sentence out fully, Google home responds and it'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2018
1 points

Same thing happens to me. I'm fluent when I stop thinking about my speech. But the issue here is that its actually hard not to think about it...I've yet to fully gasp that technique......

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Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2018
3 points

I do the same thing. Whenever I'm alone i talk to myself and I start telling stories or giving opinions about something that happened to me that day like there's someone else in the room with me and i...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2018
1 points

Have you thought about online dating you put in your bio that you stutter so you know it's out there right away and anyone talking to you is aware straight up. Then you have the chance through written...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterOct 2, 2018
4 points

Stuttering my whole life

Stuttering my whole life Hello everyone! Recently discovered this was a sub, so figured I’d vent a little and see if anyone has any advice. So, I’m enlisted in the military and have a very particular ...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2018
1 points

Same I have the script sorted in my head if I don't have to vary from the script I might do OK. If I do have to repeat or change anything it's game over ...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2018
2 points

I'm glad that has made you feel better. It really frustrates me that I can speak fine with no one around. If I could just harness that calmness I'd be fine all the time ...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2018
1 points

I was exactly like this, i stuttered way worse on the phone amd never wanted to call anyone ever. I dont know when, why or how, but i can easly take phone calls, even order food etc. I have no clue...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2018
3 points

Probably. Seriously though just remember no one gives a shit if you stutter but you. People may look at you funny or whatever, but that's just because a lot of times they are caught off guard and don'...

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postr/StutterOct 2, 2018
51 points

I'm so dumb I just realised this would be a sub.

I'm so dumb I just realised this would be a sub. I'm 30. I have always stuttered. Reading this sub I can see my experiences are pretty much the same as everyone else but just thought I'd make a positi...

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commentr/StutterOct 1, 2018
1 points

The best thing really is exposure therapy at least in my case, I just answer the call without thinking because if I think that increases my chance of stuttering. Luckily/unluckily I only really have b...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2018
7 points

Using speakerphone helps me a lot. Just holding the phone up to my ear brings the anxiety but setting the phone on a table and just talking to it like it's a normal person improves my stutter....

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Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2018
1 points

I do it because I feel my poor fluency over the phone is not inherently my stutter, but more nerves/fear that I must get over. I anticipate that with time, calls will become incrementally smoother and...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
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