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postr/StutterJul 18, 2024
42 points

I'm Single, no Career and no friends because of stuttering

I'm Single, no Career and no friends because of stuttering I have been single for life no Girlfriend ever, i have just completed my study and in all the interviews i got rejected and i have no friend...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerLoneliness & Isolation+2 more
postr/StutterJul 18, 2024
22 points

fuck stutter

fuck stutter im here just to say that i fucking hate stutter.Being more gray,sad and depressed person with anxiety,cuz of stutter is so fucking unfair.I cant imagine living my whole life with this shi...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterJul 17, 2024
59 points

The hardest thing to come to terms with as a guy who stutters

The hardest thing to come to terms with as a guy who stutters Is knowing you most likely can’t/won’t ever be that outgoing guy who can just waltz into a room and be charismatic and playful. I’m talki...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
0 points

Fuck your suffering i just want to speak fluently.There is 1% chance to stutter how can i have that shit luck i just want to talk normal be normal i hate my life sometimes why should i go to this...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterJul 16, 2024
6 points

help

help i’m 15 years old and my stutter is genuinely ruining my life, it’s gave me severe social anxiety and i find myself staying in my house 24/7 because i have no friends to hang out with and i’m afra...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
3 points

I resonate with your feelings of inferiority and the constant comparison of your speech to that of others. I doubt I'll ever overcome this, given how my stutter has hindered my life. So, I just have ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
12 points

Well yes but actually no 😅 Biden does stutter, but what he IS ridiculed for is his incoherent speech. Like calling Zelensky Putin etc. Or randomly changing topics forgetting what he was talking about...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyPublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
8 points

That was actually one of my dream jobs as a kid. Made me really sad when people told me that I wouldn´t be able to do it....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
1 points

I experience that we (almost) never speak about strategies to unlearn stuttering here on Reddit. But.. Why not? **Genetics:** Isn't it because we often shout: "*No, it's genetic and neurological*"?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
1 points

> *So the thing I should try is to "not try to impose certain rules to myself"* hmm.. you said: 'So, we should not try to self-impose rules, right?' --> I think that your question can be more specif...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
15 points

I can so relate to your experience, stuttering adds such an unnecessary load, it makes connecting and easing through social interactions so painful and frustrating!!...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
1 points

I’m also the only sibling that stutters and I have a guilt that I make my brothers look bad. In elementary I was extroverted but over the years you can say my stutters was progressive and my brain sta...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & ConflictHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
2 points

Thank you for your post. Last couple months I accepted my stutter issue although, it started 12 year ago. Struggling everyday but i am trying my best. I think by now it’s not just a speech problem, it...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
2 points

After reading I relate to what you’re experiencing, except I’m in my senior year 17M. It is true that what we’re experiencing is the battle of the mind we can be so much more, we can do so much more b...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 12, 2024
17 points

Stuttering is so incredibly exhausting

Stuttering is so incredibly exhausting I have tried everything to better my stutter and it just keeps getting worse and worse. My confidence has literally shattered because of it. I avoid people and s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
1 points

I said I could bring a note, but they resisted and said “we’re not going to penalize you for your stutter, anyway (as in they wont take points off for my “lack of fluent delivery), but it’s clear that...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
3 points

Imagine for a moment that you managed to rid off stuttering. What's next? You're the same person and as practice shows, there are a lot of people without speech problems that have suicidal ideation as...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterJul 9, 2024
50 points

Suicidal thoughts

Suicidal thoughts I’m a 28 year old male. I’ve stuttered my entire life and it makes life difficult. Yesterday I was having issues with my insurance and had to be on the phone with them while they h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
11 points

so true. my life would genuinely be SO much easier if i could just speak fluently. people really take it for granted. i'd be living a really different life to be quite honest if i didn't stutter...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
17 points

We go through so much because of our mysterious disorder. Only we stutterers really know how limited our lives of stuttering are. Even just the frustration they will never understand....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life