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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
5 points

I had 5 relationships and everyone was respectful the last one said to me I love that you stutter that who you are, we can’t change that but we have to believe that we will find someone that will love...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
2 points

My advice like most of the replies I have seen is to let them know as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the anxiety will build up. Is this someone you may want to take things further with and pos...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
3 points

My stammer is the same and I only speak about it to one or two people. I would strongly urge you to tell him, he probably won’t even care that much. I’d also suggest trying to change your mindset and ...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
3 points

This! Also, calling it a “disclosure” feels way too formal of a term. Just say hey, I stutter....

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Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
5 points

You just have to tell them. If they react poorly they obviously aren't good enough for a serious relationship. I've disclosed mine within the first few days of talking to someone, unless we meet in p...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
1 points

I have, as I needed one to be allowed to study abroad for a semester. I stutter much less in English than in my own language, so it actually went quite good. This obviously won't help you, but just re...

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School & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
3 points

I often forget I have a stutter, so when we meet oops. I don't call very often because I am usually just chilling somewhere and calling is inconvenient...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
4 points

Exactly what I experience every day, I'm not open about my stammering with other people instead i avoid trigger words which makes me stutter, I'm not in any serious relationship or anything, but i kno...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2023
12 points

The bigger the deal you make it, the bigger the deal of telling him is. Just “heads up I do stutter, nothings wrong, just the way I talk”...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2023
17 points

I usually disclose it as soon straight up via text or something. It's better to be just open and honest about everything. As for when to tell them for you personally, the best time was yesterday, the...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2023
42 points

Tell him. As long as you hide your stuttering, you will live in fear of discovery. If he judges you because you stutter, then he’s someone you don’t want to associate with anyway -...

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postr/StutterJun 17, 2023
30 points

How do you disclose your stutter to someone you’re dating?

How do you disclose your stutter to someone you’re dating? I’m talking to this guy I’ve met online but we also met in person couple of times ( not intentionally). It’s a long distance and we communic...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2023
4 points

You guys getting matches 🙂. Keeping jokes aside you should tell her that you are a stammerer at some stage of your relationship. Be proud that you are open about it. Also it removes the pressure of h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2023
3 points

I met my wife through online dating. I did have it in my profile. She had the opposite interpretation than the above reply. She liked the confidence and the fact I was comfortable enough to put it ...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2023
11 points

Do **not** put it in your profile. If you do, it signals that it really bothers you. You want to signal the opposite. And how do you do that? By weaving it into your first few chat conversations with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
15 points

When I was on dating apps, I didn't put it on my bio. But I always let them know before meeting in person....

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJun 16, 2023
8 points

Dating advice

Dating advice On a tinder profile or something like that, do y’all usually put that you’re a stutterer or not? I feel like it would turn many people away… but maybe it has its benefits...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
3 points

When I do job interview, I tell them I stutter at the beginning....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
2 points

100% Even non-stutterers sometimes stutter during interviews. Be open about it. Be honest. And move forward with the reason you're there....

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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
4 points

So it is okay to stutter and let the interviewer know beforehand that I stutter. And I should present myself properly and concentrate on presenting my skills and how i fit into the role instead of foc...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career