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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2018
6 points

I realize that they're trying to help, but it doesn't make it less condescending or patronizing. I dislike the immediate assumption that I'm incapable. I also dislike that I'm put in the position of h...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2018
6 points

This is literally the only thing anyone with a stutter will ever ask of anyone. Half of the anxiety that I associate with my stutter is thinking about people filling in my words to begin with....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2018
1 points

I used to smoke weed like three years i stopped year ago, at the beginning it was great it made me more relaxed i dont remember how my stutter was bad or good but i had a great experience, until the t...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2018
1 points

For me it doesn’t really do much except make me a little more relaxed about it. Low dose helps but getting baked makes it a little worse because it becomes harder to put the thoughts into words which...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2018
25 points

I don't smoke weed anymore but I smoked for a lot for about 6 years and I think being high makes you a little more anxious socially then when you are sober. It is a drug in my experience that should b...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2018
12 points

All I can say is this: It’s clear that your biggest problem is NOT your stutter. Your biggest problem is your FEAR of stuttering. The only way you’re going to overcome your fear of stuttering is to st...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 27, 2018
7 points

Anxiety about transitioning into adulthood

Anxiety about transitioning into adulthood Its just a vent , these are the feelings i ve been having for a long time Okay so my teenagers are almost over . Im 19 now and im terrified of being an adult...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2018
2 points

I would survey your options and maybe try to find something that can help you build or get experience in an area you may want to have as a career. Or, find something with better than average pay and w...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerQuality of LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 25, 2018
13 points

How do you deal with having a stutter in this world?

How do you deal with having a stutter in this world? I just...i get overwhelmed sometimes. A lot of the times. I hate having to introduce myself to people, I hate how fucking rude people can be, I hat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2018
3 points

A few of my co-workers do the same thing to me. I wasn't annoyed by it much but it's dumb how people don't understand how hard it is. One of my mangers believes i stutter because I'm nervous.. Stupid...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
5 points

>I overheard my manager saying to the district manager, "She's doing really well, we're working on her customer assistance, but she seems to be stuttering a lot, which is fine I guess. We will work...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
3 points

If I can give you some advice, if you are a teenager now... this is the worst it will probably be. At least, that's what you should keep telling yourself. Dont be afraid to stutter. Don't be afraid to...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
1 points

I get you. I got pulled over once years ago and the cop thought I was on something. I told him I stutter. I just got off work I was exhausted and just wanted to go home. He made me do a field test I p...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
3 points

Ordering drinks at a noisy bar is the worst. Stand there for like 5 minutes with loads of people behind you, having to shout for the bartender to hear you, not able to get your words out because of th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
3 points

Dude just the tiniest bit of anxiety that butterfly feeling in my stomach causes me to stutter and usually it's a snowball effect. I was able to block out my stutter most my childhood by avoiding talk...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2018
1 points

Thanks for your reply. Some people know but I rarely talk to anyone at my school as all my friends moved to a different school. My family knows too but I've never really thought about therapy. I think...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice RequestsSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2018
2 points

You're still young so I'm going to tell you something that you really need to hear. Do not be ashamed of your stutter. If you do that, it will only become worse and you'll soon resort to escapism wh...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2018
2 points

Can't say, it's personal and pretty unique to me. But that's why I encourage everyone to go on their own journey - there's hope to beat this if you feel it's down to anxiety...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2018
1 points

I think it’s also a bit of the pressure of feeling judged that you can’t even say your name. For me I definitely feel like the more I try not to stutter. The worse I do stutter. Then of course when I...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionStimulants & Caffeine
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2018
1 points

Yes! Whenever I let people know I have a stutter (like a professor) or if I am meeting someone and I know ahead of time. If I let them know, it relieves my anxieties and all the fear of how they might...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment