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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
2 points

Another girl stutterer here. I've also never met a female stutterer in real life and have only seen some online. As I inherited it from the male side of my family I don't believe female stuttering dif...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2019
4 points

I feel like this with my mother. She feels like I'm totally disabled just because I stutter and to her everything has to be perfect;Especially around others. I can tell she's embarrassed when I talk a...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
1 points

Even though most people know that stuttering is involuntary, an assumption I see often is that a bout of stuttering is triggered by general nervousness/uneasiness, unpreparedness (e.g. for a meeting/p...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
1 points

Right on man, I've been curious about online play, but I'd get frustrated at my own stutter...

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Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

Stuttering is like role entrapment: I feel like I'm forever destined to play the role of a shy, unconfident, awkward but nice guy. People just see that so many of them assume that I'm like that when...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

I've never once had anyone order food for me and I think that's due to the fact that as a male, I'd hate not being able to do it myself. It would make me feel weak. Obviously I know now that it's okay...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
2 points

I am female who stutters mildly- I have been doing this on an off for almost my whole life. I have had years of spontaneous fluency, punctuated by months of mild- moderate disfluency like every year, ...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
11 points

Tell people you’re 39. It’s funny and (hopefully) you won’t stutter....

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

30 years old here, haven't met any other ladies with stutters, or much of anyone with a stutter to be honest (only person I can think of may have been a product of brain damage from an injury while se...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
2 points

I’m a female stutterer :’) I’ve been stuttering since I was a kid, and it used to be really bad. I repeat the first letter of a word mostly, but I also have times where I hold onto a word for a long p...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Repetitions & ProlongationsBlocks & StoppagesPhysical Tension+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
2 points

>Being a male, I feel like I HAVE to be more dominate and outspoken but my stuttering normally makes me feel "less masculine" You are correct, you are generally expected to be dominant if your goa...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
1 points

I’m a woman who stutters. I think the experience is different...people often think it’s “cute” when I’m not sure they feel the same when it’s a man. It’s definitely more socially acceptable to be a sh...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
1 points

Why don’t you just go to the movies with them man? I get you’re anxious but when I’m around my friends I’m usually less anxious, try to hangout with them next time!...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

Female stutterer here! I never really thought about the difference in genders, but I guess I've only really met one or two female stutterers before. The "cute" thing is a real annoyance and I'm sure...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
4 points

I can somewhat agree. Being a male, I feel like I HAVE to be more dominate and outspoken but my stuttering normally makes me feel "less masculine" I don't hate you. Open discussions are a hate free ...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

socially in many countries in acceptable if woman doesn't say much . Therefore covering the stutter, but for males they need to outspoken to get things done. ​ I know some people may hate...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2019
3 points

That's interesting.. can I ask ya'll a follow up question? Do you think your experiences differ from a male? For example, whenever I'm trying to talk to a girl I like and start stuttering she normal...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 12, 2019
3 points

I'm in trouble peeps

I'm in trouble peeps Obvious throwaway. I have had a stutter my whole life. Severity depends on the day but I would generally categorize it as mild to moderate. EXCEPT MY FUCKING NAME. I stutter badl...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2019
1 points

I have stutter and speech block... and I am soo scared to start nursing school that is next month! I know we have to present and do assessment with people watching... any advice...?...

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Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2019
1 points

I unfortunately was failed in my foreign language class due to not being able to present. My written was perfect, but oral presentation was 60% of the grade. I tried to fight it, but I lost...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life