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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2014
1 points

I think we try so hard not to stutter, consciously or unconsciously, that we can't even let ourselves repeat like that. We have such an aversion to "suttering" or looking/sounding like a stutterer tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2014
1 points

Yeah, at least in our stuttering behaviors. I dont know what kind of therapy you've had or how much youve read but check out avoidance reduction. Our blocking is us holding back, not allowing ourselve...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2014
10 points

Don't miss the forrest for the trees. You faced your fear and it came true. But what else happened? a) you successfully completed the task - congrats. That takes courage and conviction. Don't sell...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PridePersonal Stories+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
3 points

I'm open. Always. I can be fluent if the situation requires, but I don't see the need to hide who you are. Best defense is a good offense IMO...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
1 points

I had never the chance to hide my stuttering. I hated stuttering, but am ok with it now....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2014
1 points

I hate it when I have a great idea and I automatically chose the synonyms of the words I want to say, and it doesn't come across how I want it to. I've been stuttering mildly for years, I've finally a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2014
2 points

Katherine Preston, author of the book "Out With It" handles her stutter very well. It's interesting to see how she gently persists through each block and manages to get her words out after a 2-3 tries...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PridePersonal Stories
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2014
1 points

I ran into a guy nearly two years ago who had a profoundly different relationship with his stutter than I do. I'm constantly surfing these threads of words which I know won't trip me up, even though i...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2014
2 points

I feel more comfortable talking to other people who stutter. They know the struggle I go through and they won't judge me for not being fluent. ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2014
5 points

Personally, it makes me feel a bit more comfortable as I know the other person won't judge me as they're in the same position. Worked as a bike shop mechanic/sales person, and was able to sell a lady ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2014
5 points

If there was one tidbit of knowledge I could put in every stutterer's mind it would be this: Stuttering in no way decreases the meaningfulness of your speech. Your message is important, your words mat...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterAug 8, 2014
10 points

PSA: Think of yourself as a Person Who Stutters (PWS), instead of a stutterer

PSA: Think of yourself as a Person Who Stutters (PWS), instead of a stutterer If you think of yourself as a stutterer, you're letting it define you as person, instead of just something we all have to ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2014
2 points

Thank God it helped you.!! I personally have never hated stuttering, Here is why.(and I tell this not to impress you,but to impress upon you.) 1.it has kept me humble,otherwise I would have been way...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2014
1 points

Guys!!!! I did it. I spoke my seminar fluently,like from begining to end... wooh hooh :' D I had to speak in an auditorium. Before the seminar i had to wait fr like 4 hrs fr my chance. Yes,i experien...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Public SpeakingAcceptance & PrideFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2014
1 points

True. A few months ago I told someone I wouldn't date someone who stutters. Looking back on it, I feel really shitty. Like you said, there's something incredibly unbearable about two PWS struggling to...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2014
2 points

Patrick, I can relate. Reading what you wrote was weird because I felt like it was me writing it. I'm totally down to being good friends. In fact, we're all friends here. You won't ever stop stutterin...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2014
5 points

My names Jackie. I'm 20 years old and currently in college. I've had a severe stutter ever since I can remember. I think I knew about it so young because my twin sister speaks fluently so I was always...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Assistive DevicesAcceptance & PrideSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2014
1 points

Thanks for your detailed and long reply. I'm not afraid as I no longer avoid speaking situations, I'm calm during them, and there are no signs of stress either before or after blocking. I'm not at a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2014
1 points

I used to, but I changed my thoughts on the matter. I really don't care what people think of my speech, or me as a person. I can watch the kings speech etc with no problem. ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2014
3 points

Congratulations on not fearing blocks and for putting yourself into communication interactions that might make you uncomfortable. Neither of those are small things. You should be proud. Can I ask som...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingBlocks & Stoppages