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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

Yeah it was kind of a kick in the gut when it happened. It was years ago but I still remember I just couldn't get past this one word and so I had my eyes closed just trying over and over again and the...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
2 points

Hi! I kind of think once a stutterer always a stutterer. It’s genetic. Like another poster said, stress can make it return. When I was a child and began stuttering, I went to a speech therapist. She...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

हकलाना बहुत परेशान करने वाला है और मेरे सामाजिक और पेशेवर जीवन को प्रभावित करता है। मैं फिलहाल इसका समाधान ढूंढ रहा हूँ। मैं विटामिन और जड़ी-बूटियाँ आज़मा रहा हूँ। मैंने पहले भी साँस लेने के व्यायाम क...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2025
1 points

When I was in pinger I’d take it. Right now if it cost more than 300$ I wouldn’t give a shit. It’s not all encompassing of my identity. It’s not that deep to me at all anymore. I have a million more p...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
2 points

Yeah, it’s like a punch in the gut when you’re in a stuttering space but most of the people there have significantly less severe stutters than you…. Especially when someone with a really mild stutter ...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
2 points

I am one of those people. I am a speech pathologist who is also a lifelong stutterer. I always felt ashamed and embarrassed by my stuttering. I decided to do research on how I can become fluent. I ask...

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postr/StutterJul 23, 2025
20 points

Should I focus on self-acceptance or speech improvement?

Should I focus on self-acceptance or speech improvement? I know these two goals aren't mutually exclusive — ideally, I’d work on both at the same time. But right now, it doesn’t feel feasible. I’d rea...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
3 points

49 yr old stutterer here. I dealt with the same asshole kids in school and I was pulled out of class for special speech classes which made it even worse. But I’m happy to report it definitely does cha...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
5 points

The issue isn’t about age, it’s about the maturity of the individual. You might find a man in his thirties with a childish mind, while a 17-year-old could be intellectually mature...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
1 points

I hope I was able to provide enough information for someone who has stuttered their whole life, like me, to become fluent. I was lucky in that I am a speech pathologist who has an expertise in brain b...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2025
34 points

It gets better. The older you get, the more people will realize that (a) you’re just dealing with the hand your genes dealt you and (b) mocking a stutter isn’t actually funny. Most adults will try to ...

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postr/StutterJul 22, 2025
7 points

Seeking advice towards mental health regarding dating

Seeking advice towards mental health regarding dating hi everybody, for background I'm a 27 y/o F and have a moderate sttuter. I've recently been trying to date to find someone and have been using the...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2025
1 points

He’s been open about his stutter for decades https://youtu.be/jUFA6JUaAPY?si=ULF3lXBooLUJ68tX https://youtu.be/KBjefNL2pec?si=SpzlsvGLKXvfxqVC https://youtu.be/_mlkpb08Zh8?si=00HsD_UmnnJcwUEN He w...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2025
4 points

P.s. just some more things i thought were important to add.. I hope you will one day find some way to make this part of your life easier. And I don't think you should give up on the prospect of that. ...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2025
6 points

Thankyou for writing and sharing this, as my younger self would have really appreciated it and felt seen :) Having said that, I do probably count as one those people you write of, who have a mild stut...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2025
0 points

I know that. But it’s more impactful to drop that on a stranger. I use “disfluency” too, for added effect....

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2025
-22 points

Simon, Stuttering IS NOT HAVING A DISABILITY! You have a DISORDER!...

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Medicalization / NeurodiversityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2025
2 points

If you are a stutterer and don’t want to stutter you can mouth the words with no voice and stuttering stops. The stuttering does not occur in your mouth but rather in your voice. Many stutterers know ...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2025
1 points

Not to be edgy but pain is universal across every living/breathing organism on the planet. Remember that the next time you look at someone or talk to them, it sucks our vulnerabilities are so exposed ...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2025
1 points

It’s interesting that you added that you were african american at the end there. I’m 30yo, Honduran-American (100% Honduran blood but basically whitewashed), gay, and I have adhd + depression diagnosi...

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