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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
3 points

Wow. When I make a voice message or a video and I know that I can delete it with no one noticing I can do it fluently. When is the other way around the stuttering come´s up....

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingSituational Variability
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
6 points

Sort of. I consider my self as always trying to perform high. My self steem is strongly linked to that idea. Every activity I do, I try to perform at the highest level. I got a weird idea that I do ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
1 points

Glad you've found an outlet that works for you! :D Could it be that drawing is something you find as a comfortable and safe process? I enjoy drawing a ton since it let me feel productive, It's also...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
6 points

Strangely, mine is better or barely there with strangers (like service workers). I can be nearly fluent with strangers. I have more issues with those who I know....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 6, 2024
6 points

Why do I not stutter when I stream?

Why do I not stutter when I stream? Months ago I decided to start streaming on Twitch because I wanted to share my drawing process, I noticed that I rarely stutrer, unlike talking in person when I st...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 6, 2024
15 points

How occasional writing instead of speaking drastically reduced my anxiety

How occasional writing instead of speaking drastically reduced my anxiety Hi fellow stutterers, I would like to share my fairly new strategy that I've been using for the last 2 months, and it has re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

knowing what I know now I regret not punching my bullies in the teeth. good for you on that one. I am more trained than all the kids who work in my department and management treats me like I know les...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

Hello! 32F. Probably met one other female stutterer my entire life. I was so self-conscious about my stutter in my 20s. As you know, I experience days with complete fluency and then days with blocks o...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & FluctuationEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

for people who wants to know: i did the presentation today with my colleagues, i was nervous for sure, everybody tells me i was amazing and everything was perfect, personally i feel average , i did be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

Go for it! I did summer research programs like that in college and they were always a great experience - you get a much better taste of what research is like working full time rather than the few hour...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

The hardest part is embracing it. I try so hard to hide the fact out of embarrassment/shame. Thank you for your response, I have to stop letting my fear stop me from doing things....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

The best thing to do is not to pay it any more attention. The less you think about it, the better things will go. You must accept that you will stutter and that it will pass, probably smoother than yo...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
12 points

So few humans stutter and most of them are men so it's a fact of this life. It's actually interesting to me to see how men handle it because men tend to handle life's challenges in all sorts of ways t...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 3, 2024
15 points

Do you stutter when you're alone?

Do you stutter when you're alone? I hardly ever stutter when I am alone. When I'm alone I can read/think out loud and be completely fluent. I'm just curious if this is the experience of other people...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Experiential AssociationSituational VariabilityVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
2 points

Interestingly, your situation is very similar to mine (we are also same age lol). I have always had a mild stutter that I could perfectly conceal. I went through school and university without much spe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
1 points

Be true to yourself. Be the person you want to be. Don't make changes based on how others receive you. That being said... If you want to make radical changes, do it! If you don't try, you'll always w...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
6 points

I’m totally with you. As frustrating as it is and as much stress and insecurity that comes with it, I know I’m so much more than my stutter. It’s exhausting carefully maneuvering through words and get...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterMar 2, 2024
17 points

I have tried to accept my stutter but I still want to hide it

I have tried to accept my stutter but I still want to hide it I am a covert stutter and most of the people around me probably don’t even know I stutter. But lately there are words that I can’t substit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2024
2 points

yea pretty much. It helped me not associate my disfluencies in speech with stutttering, which helped me stutter less....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2024
1 points

yes, i stopped thinking of my disfluencies as stuttering which led me to speak more freely and that led to me stuttering less. it worked for me, i hope it helps you as well. It's not some magical re...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride