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postr/StutterJan 22, 2016
31 points

My presentation went horribly, but...

My presentation went horribly, but... I just had a presentation and it went horribly. I stuttered on EVERY word and looked like a retard when my head had spasms. But you know what? I took the first st...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2016
1 points

This feeling, the point of your title, comes in waves it would seem for me. Not all the time but I feel it. Sometimes it lasts for a short while, minutes if you will and those times are a great time t...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2016
2 points

You don't have a choice about whether or not you stutter. You do have a choice about how you deal with it. Instead try to focus on what you can do. Order the food you want, not what you can say. Go ah...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2016
1 points

I'm not sure what steps I took really. I personally don't care if I hear someone else with a speech impediment/disability, so I think that others wouldn't care either....

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2016
5 points

I feel yea. For most of my life I was not OK with my stuttering. Now I accept it more and life is my better, and I say what I want and what I mean. Just going into a situation with the attitude "I wil...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2016
1 points

I try my hardest not to think of what my life would be like if I didn't stutter, since I don't want to feel sorry for myself. How did you stop caring? I just can't wrap my head around not caring. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2016
6 points

Yes, I think all stutterers go through phases like this. There are just times when you feel helpless to the stutter and you can't help yourself from feeling down. But, as time goes on you have to put ...

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postr/StutterJan 21, 2016
10 points

Just found this sub, wanted to share my perspective.

Just found this sub, wanted to share my perspective. Hey guys I just found this subreddit and had to subscribe and share some of my thoughts on stuttering. Being 26 I have stuttered for 20 years and ...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2016
2 points

Yes. I've been in that precise situation recently with a covert stutterer who couldn't hide it successfully. There was a wonderful "one of us" moment and that was about it. He seemed relieved. How...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2016
1 points

Overwhelmingly so! I don't feel so constrained anymore and I have all of these "new" and confusing emotions that I'm pretty happy to get to experience. Sometimes my stutter makes me frustrated as wel...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2016
2 points

For me its gotten better but only because I stopped giving a fuck so much about my stutter. Sure I try to be fluent when I can but If i stutter its not a massive deal. Overall I think I lead a pretty ...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2016
2 points

I know! It feels so much better to be yourself. Okay, sometimes it frustrates me thát I stutter. But always trying to hide it gave me more stress, absolutly! ...

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postr/StutterJan 18, 2016
6 points

Hello!

Hello! Hi there, I just subscribed, but I wanted to say hello and explain why I'm here. I have stuttered for as long as I can remember, since I could speak I guess. My parents subscribed to the "just ...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2016
1 points

I'd say that's a great way to sum it up. In social situations people feed off your own attitude, so if you treat it like yeah I stutter its whatever, they'll likely feel the same way....

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2016
3 points

I think it got much easier but it's partially because I also opened up a lot and just started talking openly about it. If you show people that you're comfortable with your speech, they'll be comfortab...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2016
13 points

It just became a part of who I am. There are things I avoid, like speaking in front of groups, but for the most part my life is no different than anyone else. I always do the ordering for my family ...

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postr/StutterJan 14, 2016
5 points

Social stigma against stuttering

Social stigma against stuttering Why is stuttering considered a problem that needs to be fixed? Most of the time I'm okay with stuttering and I don't feel like uncomfortable with it. The only times I...

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postr/StutterJan 12, 2016
19 points

Had a waiter with a stutter at dinner.

Had a waiter with a stutter at dinner. It wasn't very noticeable but I could tell he was stressing the beginning of his words trying to get them out and he was using a lot of filler words. I am very p...

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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2016
1 points

I had a very similar experience. I took on a job as a cocktail girl during my "good speech period", which was a HUGE leap of faith for me. As soon as my stutter began to show its annoying face a few w...

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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2016
3 points

I'd say about 95-99 percent of the time like a normal human being. I don’t think much of the usual reactions. I did have a few stuttering situations at that happened in the last six months. The fir...

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