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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2019
2 points

I'm sorry that you are going through this. I found phone interviews got easier when I was open and honest about my speech. Most of my anxiety when I stutter or block is the perception of everything be...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2019
1 points

I have a really hard time on the phone with any sort of call, even my family. I need the face to face to be a bit easier on me, so I can’t fathom doing an interview that way. The fact that you went th...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2019
3 points

God phone calls are the worst. I am.sure you did better then you think. And hey ya are facing it head one so be proud of that!!!!!...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2019
9 points

Hopefully it went better than you think, we tend to be very tough on ourselves. Employers also assume that people will be nervous on the phone and the interview will be clunky. If appropriate, maybe ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 7, 2019
42 points

Had a horrendous phone interview, please talk me down lol

Had a horrendous phone interview, please talk me down lol I’ve been unemployed for two weeks and got a phone interview for a great front desk position at a 5 star medical office. I’ve done front desk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2019
3 points

I’m in a different boat in certain ways, as for me stuttering is triggered by anxiety (primarily social anxiety). Like you, certain days I can manage to hide my stutter - in conversation, I do a ‘rese...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2019
3 points

Take your ugly ass opinion and get the fuck out of this subreddit. Who do you think you are coming here trying to tell someone who just opened up about how stutter effects their everyday life and stat...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2019
-5 points

Hahahha you are such a meek guy, I guess people always like to whine on their bad luck. You better buckle up because life wont always cry because you "stutter". Also that hand is just a projection, sl...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2019
4 points

Wow, you are absolutely fucking insane. I literally stated in my post that when it kicks off hard and I can’t control it, I stutter all day. What horseshit niche criteria do you judge other people tha...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
4 points

>problem with stutteriring is that it cuts the connection between the outer shell and the inside. makes it hard to correctly present your inside most of the time. Completely agree with this. Even ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
2 points

You can do it. Very few people care and those who do do not matter to you. Your instructors have seen it all and will not hold it to you. Perhaps even, if you speak with them, some may let you present...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterOct 6, 2019
5 points

I Feel like running, but I can’t

I Feel like running, but I can’t I’m currently in my first year of college and I’m taking required freshman classes that all require public speaking. I have upcoming speeches and presentations. I feel...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifePublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
2 points

Group conversations are hard as hell for me as well. I know what I’m supposed to do, but it’s hard, so I often am quiet. Generally what gets me anywhere is if I really plan out something I will say. ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 6, 2019
2 points

any tips on handling business related life?

any tips on handling business related life? properly adressing yourself in networking and establishing social connections are as crucial as it gets and it can obviously get stressful for even a normal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
6 points

Totally agree - this describes every group encounter for me, and also describes how one-on-one encounters usually go much better. I think it has partially to do with timing - a group dynamic has its ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
2 points

I get that momentum thing. It is worse for me in loud environments or with lots of particularly out-going people. And feeling ignored sucks. Especially if it is a pain in the tit to speak. I guess p...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 6, 2019
54 points

I find it EXTREMELY difficult to gain respect and be assertive. I don't feel like a "man".

I find it EXTREMELY difficult to gain respect and be assertive. I don't feel like a "man". I'd like to believe I'm a well dressed and well presented person. I keep clean and put effort into how I appe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2019
2 points

Becoming conscious of your thoughts and feelings is an incredibly important step. Often, we just feel the feeling (e.g. fear) and run before we are even fully aware why. It's hard to explain this in a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2019
1 points

What a blessing you have. My inability of flirting with women always piss me off so much. I even think that I know how to flirt with women but I am unable to reproduce it due to stuttering so it ends ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2019
1 points

I would love to be a part of it, but I am not sure I will be allowed. I stutter due to my anxiety, not a neurological-related issue. :)...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment