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commentr/StutterNov 26, 2023
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When you tell people you stutter and your stutter becomes more prominent that means you’re comfortable with stuttering around them, I stutter the worst with my family, but it’s not because of me getti...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2023
1 points

Just say your not not confident talking on the phone just yet due to having a stammer, carry on as you are for a whole till maybe your more confident.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2023
1 points

When I told someone I stuttered it did worsen as well. It was like a set the stage for “when is he going to stutter?” However a friend of mine told people, he was like yeah sometimes stutter, deal wit...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2023
1 points

Let him know because later he will question you. Do you stammer? Better to tell him imo....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterNov 26, 2023
22 points

I'm talking to a guy and I'm wondering if I should tell him about my stuttering, because he wants me to talk on the phone to talk to be closer to each other, should I tell him and then talk in phone? or just talk in phone without telling him about my stutter?

I'm talking to a guy and I'm wondering if I should tell him about my stuttering, because he wants me to talk on the phone to talk to be closer to each other, should I tell him and then talk in phone? ...

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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2023
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It's better to be rejected for being yourself, than to only be accepted for being someone else. Own it, tell her you stutter, and be done with it. You got this man!...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2023
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Why do you say she thinks you don’t stutter anymore?...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2023
1 points

I got told I'd grow out of mine too. I'm 35 and still waiting haha Well I think just tell her you still stutter and you are self concious about. If she still wants to meet thrh then you are good to g...

Speech & StutteringSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesDisclosure & Telling OthersShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2023
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Most important piece of advice I could ever give - tell everyone you stutter. Hiding it or avoiding conversation will make everything so much worse long-term. I've found that some people are a lot mor...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2023
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>she knows you stutter doesn't she? Thats the main problem. She thinks my stutter is over but it isn't. If it were someone i met rescently, it would be easier that she knows i stutter as youre say...

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Disclosure & Telling OthersUnhelpful Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
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how long will you let your fear call the shots? tell her you stutter. and then tell every.one.else. you stutter....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
1 points

Surely she knows you stutter doesn't she? Go for it man. What's the worst that can happen? It's awkward, you don't click and you go on exactly as you feel now. Seems like you have nothing lose and eve...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2023
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If you find the right organization you can be successful! When I started at my company, I shared it my interview that I stutter and it was the best way for me to take the pressure off and I am not on ...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2023
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Yeah my ability to pause mid-stutter and explain that I have a stutter is honestly such a lifesaver. I'm generally ok with public speaking (something about knowing no-one is going to interject, I th...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersFluency TechniquesPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2023
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By telling them beforehand that you stutter. Or to make it feel even more natural, wait till you actually stutter on a word or when introducing your name, then instead of forcing through the stutter, ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2023
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Okay so let's say you meet someone who becomes a friend. They don't know if stutter but you wanna tell them. But what if after you tell them they don't treat you the same because of your stutter. Like...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2023
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Definitely has to do with personal rela6, I can talk to family and friends okay, my gf is the first person outside my family I can actually talk too without much of an issue. With her family it's on a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2023
1 points

People feel uncomfortable if they think that you’re uncomfortable. Try being open about it and disclosing that you stutter as soon as you meet people and they’ll start to view you with admiration. I d...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2023
1 points

Have you guys tried disclosing your stutter to the person you're conversing with? I find that it helps and reduces most of my stutter when the person Im talking to knows I have a stutter. I feel like ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2023
1 points

That used to happen to me, till I started saying "I have a stutter" at begging of call. They always say its OK and are a lil more patient...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others