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commentr/StutterNov 19, 2019
3 points

If you have the confidence just fiat out say something like "Hey before I start, I tend to stammer quite a bit so bear with me", so that people can understand easier and if you do find yourself stamme...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2019
8 points

I feel like that's a great idea but not for me. I hated speech techniques from childhood, I always feel more anxious when I remember I'm supposed to do techniques, and that makes me stutter more. If t...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
postr/StutterNov 19, 2019
8 points

Tips for a Teenage Stutter

Tips for a Teenage Stutter Hey Guys! I just wanted to know if you guys had any tips for calming nerves during Interviews, Presentations or Phone Calls. I’ve been Stuttering my whole life (currently ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2019
4 points

Sometimes I find myself thinking about people who speak normally, and I think that their life must be so much easier. But in actuality, they may have issues going on in their lives that are not as pro...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 18, 2019
6 points

My stutter, or else they’ll think I’m incompetent or nervous

My stutter, or else they’ll think I’m incompetent or nervous ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2019
5 points

What do you call it when you add a helping of social anxiety and a side of depression as well?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2019
1 points

Very thoughtful post! It reminds me of the "**3 Ps**"- Punctuate + Personalize = Pervasive. It is when we **punctuate** the stutter with shame, projecting, or other toxic thoughts that the micro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2019
24 points

Yeah. Sometimes when I am with friends and we are talking, jokes are flowing, discussion happening and then I stutter for a long bit, instantly making everyone slightly uncomfortable, breaking the...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2019
1 points

You are kinda ahead of a curve. When I was 20 I thought that I will find someone... 7 years later I'm not that sure anymore lol. (Please don't get discouraged by me, I believe in you!)...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
2 points

Hey mate, I feel you! I have a stutter and severe ADD. I was judged my entire life because of these two. If you tell me something once, I‘ll forget about it a minute later and you‘ll have to tell me a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
3 points

Could be I'm just a fat fuck who values delicious food and drinks too much. I have social anxiety so talking with strangers is something I avoid greatly....

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTherapy Experiences
postr/StutterNov 17, 2019
3 points

I woke up one day and inexplicably started stuttering.A month and a half later and the problem has persisted and, in some respects, worsened.

I woke up one day and inexplicably started stuttering.A month and a half later and the problem has persisted and, in some respects, worsened. Allow me to provide context.If I sound at all vain or p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2019
1 points

Hehe, not a good feeling at all. Good to let them know before the interview that you stutter to ease the anxiety a bit....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2019
3 points

Ah, that intense feeling of relief though. “I probably did terrible, embarrassed myself and will end up getting a shitty grade, but at least I’m done talking in front of everyone!”...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2019
1 points

Jerks started to make fun of me. People asking me why did I speak the way I did etc... One day I uploaded a video of me playing videogames with a friend, my stuttering and self-confidence got worse....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2019
1 points

Stuttering caused me anxiety for my entire life, feeling different from others and constantly trying to hide it. It was only until I started feeling comfortable saying “please be patient with me, I ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2019
3 points

I'm exactly the same way, feel pretty ok around family and close friends because they all cool about it. But since I moved to another country and every day have to speak to random people it's really h...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterNov 16, 2019
11 points

My experience with stuttering

My experience with stuttering I'm a 15 y/o boy from Holland, so sorry if my grammar is bad. I stutter very heavily, i can't say 2 words without stuttering. It really makes me sad because if i want t...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesPhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2019
3 points

When I make eye contact it's feels like he or she doesn't care that i stutter and it makes me relax a little bit more and then automatically i stutter less....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2019
4 points

Ha, I just roll with it knowing I will die alone. My stutter is not severe but my social awkwardness and shyness don’t help either. I’m 20 and slowly balding, I wouldn’t say I am ugly but I’m not attr...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment