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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2016
2 points

Maybe you stutter because you don't want to stutter. Lessening the anxiety around your speech would definitely help....

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2016
1 points

You are hella right, I remember when I was little and could speak as much as I wanted without worrying; might be my lack of confidence, but I have yet to accept stuttering as a part of me now. It took...

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2016
0 points

Thanks for the thoughts again. I pointed out the coddling in my reply here, but I will clarify I'm not under the impression that was what held me back. It was 100% me. I agree it's not as simple as ...

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2016
3 points

Remember, above all, that you're always going to be the one who cares the most about your stutter. I remember reading How to Win Friends and Influence People, and thinking much of it didn't apply to m...

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2016
13 points

I had to make an account for this. It's a normal response and the first step in overcome stuttering. A lot of the people posting videos and commenting on Reddit are young. Victim mentally is a bypr...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2016
1 points

I guess we all feel like that from time to time. But we must return to reality and work with what we got, right?...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2016
1 points

Seconded. Take ownership of your stuttering. You do not have to be a victim. The victim mentality is a defeatist mindset. I'm not saying you can flick a switch overnight...but you need to start traini...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2016
3 points

>however much I read aloud, however much I practice or do light contact fucking prolongations, or coastal breathing, or WHATEVER, speech is never going to be a natural part of me. You don't have ...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2016
2 points

Dude, hang in there. It gets easier with age, if you don't let it dictate your mental state. People like better those who listen to them anyway....

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2016
1 points

Sounds exactly like me at 20. Devices, therapy, hypnosis, meds. The answer is stop trying to cure it. That's the way to get it off your mind, and from there, you will find the freedom you once had....

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2016
1 points

When I was younger, I thought my stutter would keep me single too. But a lot of girls are actually attracted to it. My last girlfriend, whom I dated for three years, said it was the hottest thing abou...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2016
3 points

I feel for you. Had the exact same thoughts as a teenager. But, poisonous thoughts like this will keep you far from getting better. What will help you to overcome your stutter will be under a differ...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2016
1 points

I know what you mean about the shame afterwards, but it's an easy fix. Next time you're in a situation where you feel obligated to act (for whatever reason), just do it. Go in with the understanding...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
1 points

When I drink I rarely stutter, and I don't smoke pot any more (for like 15 or so years), I don't even remember whether I stuttered when I was high. My worst is on the telephone. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
1 points

Wouldn't work for me, I always just try to power through the stutter. It works sometimes but not all the time. I'm through trying to distract myself or act differently, it's who I am, I say syllables ...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
1 points

Yeah, I just power through it. If I feel like what I said was garbled or didn't sound right, I'll repeat it and it's usually easier the 2nd or 3rd time out of my mouth haha. By nature I'm a conversati...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
1 points

I don't downvote, but I don't care about their videos either. I guess I don't see them as an authority or having a truly deep understanding of stuttering. To me they are two guys who make nice videos ...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
2 points

I really appreciate that! I used to pity myself too. It's amazing how life can change though. I've found it has made me stand out professionally, and I've even found members of the opposite sex are sp...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
-1 points

You sound exactly like I used to. I know how you feel. Stuttering has absolutely helped my life. It has made me stand out professionally and interpersonally. It has developed my worldview and maturit...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
1 points

I feel your pain bro since I've been there as well. I however have changed my mindset on my stutter and THAT has changed my life for the better, i learned to understand accept and embrace my stutter. ...

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