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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2020
2 points

No, I don't. I aim to use all the words I come up with. It's not a good habit to avoid words, I think....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2020
1 points

I think tactics for very young stutterers are different, but that in itself wouldn't explain those particular approaches. It's not my understanding that we teach stutterers to pretend to not have a st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2020
3 points

SAME i also struggle with word that begin with D,A or that contains a V. i have to change the word on the spot otherwise i can’t talk...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterOct 13, 2020
36 points

Does anyone feel like their vocabulary is hindered by their stutter?

Does anyone feel like their vocabulary is hindered by their stutter? I don’t mean just words you use when speaking, I mean even thinking to yourself or in a written context. I come across words all th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2020
1 points

I would speak to your teacher and ask if you could give the speech privately. I think that the more we stutter, and especially under very stressful situations like these ones, where we feel very humil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2020
1 points

Same for me, mine is only two syllables but the first one is *always* a huge block. I've just given myself a one letter nickname to get around it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2020
2 points

I advise highly against #2 "Change the stutter word. Substitute.". Over time more and more stutter words are developed and this will only lead to more anxiety in the long run....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2020
4 points

lol was it difficult for me? Imagine working at an architects called " Berties design shop" but you cant say "Berties" or "design" without stuttering ! Names changed but totally true. I dreaded the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterOct 12, 2020
15 points

Teacher uses my stuttering to discredit me HELP

Teacher uses my stuttering to discredit me HELP Hello everyone,i've got a problem ​ I don't stutter much in day to day life but i stutter a lot when i'm under a lot of stress,like during ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2020
7 points

\#2 has been my go-to forever. I loved reading/writing/English class so my walking thesaurus skills were well known when I was a child (it was more impressive then, haha)....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2020
4 points

I think we might have to say that it works in terms of being successful covert stuttering. But that's not a criticism! It's just that not all people can sustain that kind of thing over time. For thos...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2020
13 points

Hm, those all look like avoidance tactics to me. Are you consistently dodging/evading anything you sense will be a problem?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterOct 12, 2020
49 points

Practical, simple tips to help stuttering.

Practical, simple tips to help stuttering. Hi, Has anyone ever come across a list of things that help people with a stutter. I don't mean support, I mean actual, physical things to try. As a former s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2020
2 points

The vicious thing with stuttering is that it is often a self-enforcing loop. When you stutter, you feel bad and can get a little bit insecure. This can lead to more stutters because you feel worse. It...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2020
3 points

I sometimes feel like they listen more carefully now that they can’t see our mouths with masks on. But also felt a bit of the opposite where people can’t intuitively guess what I’m going to say anymor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterOct 10, 2020
6 points

first job interview on Monday

first job interview on Monday So this morning I got a call back from the local grocery store I applied to. I was super caught off guard and it was instant anxiety and I ended up stuttering A LOT even...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 10, 2020
7 points

I just feel lost

I just feel lost I recently turned 17 and I just feel lost. I don’t really know how to say it but I don’t really know what to do. I started school again for the year a few weeks ago now and we have to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2020
1 points

I totally feel you man, the inner me is a social creature that likes being interacted with but the outer me or who I portray to be is a shy and timid person and it sucks. I shy away from conversations...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2020
6 points

I’m 28 and I’ve stuttered my whole life. I work for Oracle as a salesperson and I’ve worked there for almost 6.5 years, since I graduated college. At first my stutter held me back a lot and I would b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2020
4 points

In my experience, the more cold calling I did, the better my speech got. Putting myself out there and doing things I tell myself I’m nervous about or scared of makes a big difference for me. Even if i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation