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commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
2 points

Yes i will definitely try to do that. I can practise it to my cat who is sitting here with me right now lol. Thank you for caring and for the advice, wish you all the best aswell...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifePublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
1 points

Thank you so much for taking the time to read and reply with such a helpful perspective and solution on the whole thing. For future subjects, I will have to have the talk with the professors. I think ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
2 points

*hugs I've dealt with the same issue when I was in college. One thing I did was write down my presentation and if I shuttered I could read from it until I got past the block. Then j would try it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifePublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
2 points

I can relate to this. My biggest problem is when I am on the phone and I can not see the other person or read their body language. With a phone call there are so many other variables at play than ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
1 points

Fair enough I guess. Had the same problem myself in the uni. I could rush and stutter or take it slow but 3x longer. If 30ppl have to wait it out then yeah, it's wasting everyone's time. If it's a sma...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
1 points

Hey man! I say this encouraging cliché stuff because I believe it is the only thing that can make a lasting positive impact on your quality of life. Hiding from difficult situations and feeling ashame...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2021
2 points

Good job with the studies, keep up the hard work! This with presenting however seems to be a big deal given the stakes and how bad it makes you feel. I have always sucked at it myself but since I lowe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAdvice Requests+2 more
postr/StutterJan 6, 2021
11 points

Interviews and speech fatigue

Interviews and speech fatigue Just hear to vent a little bit. Feel free to read or not. Been interviewing a lot for some jobs recently. Just finished my 4th interview in 3 days. One was in person, t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJan 6, 2021
3 points

When I'm presenting a Project In School...

When I'm presenting a Project In School... Hey, 16 yr male here, Is it my fault if it takes SOOO much longer than anyone else's presentation? I always have that side thought that everyone just wants ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifeAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2021
5 points

Don’t rush yourself to say the word that’s giving you problems. As much as I hate talking slowly it helps me get through blocks and not stutter as much. Like you said people know you stutter so you sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2021
3 points

You make a great point. In almost every stuttering book I have read, or podcast. Something they always tell you to "cancel" out the word. Or substitute it with another word, and correct some words don...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightAudience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterJan 5, 2021
4 points

Disclosing lines

Disclosing lines Anyone have any good lines they use for disclosing to people? I have an over-the-phone job interview tomorrow, needless to say I’m extremely anxious, but I think that I would feel bet...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
2 points

For me personally, the best way for me to start building confidence was to just jump like when diving into a pool. I’m not saying immediately start doing public speaking, but start off with little, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
2 points

do you have a hard time like me saying the word stutter? I try speech impediment but same result. I guess I will just have to power through it. Thanks...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
7 points

My stutter is worse in groups so I'm always seen as the "quiet one". Really I have so much to say inside my head but just don't....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJan 5, 2021
100 points

I wrote my personal essay for college about my stutter, and now that I’ve been accepted, I figured you guys may want to read it too.

I wrote my personal essay for college about my stutter, and now that I’ve been accepted, I figured you guys may want to read it too. Have you ever thought about articulating the word "debacle", or con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
2 points

Wow, that's a really eye opening way of putting it. My worst enemy are my blocks but from what I've read from others, the more you do it the easier it'll get. I'll definitely start putting myself out ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
2 points

What you're describing is kind of a feedback loop for your brain where the more you avoid something the more scared you may feel the next time. Thankfully, the opposite is true. The more you tackle ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2021
3 points

I started push myself, as immigrant i have to make calls and talk with other people all the time because my parents didn't speak English, whenever they need something i have to do it because there's n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
postr/StutterJan 5, 2021
23 points

Does anyone else just hate talking?

Does anyone else just hate talking? Rant Having a really hard time communicating effectively. I understand myself and I feel like I am being fluent but the other person does not understand me. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+1 more