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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2025
5 points

And then they laugh. I used to go along with it just to make the other person feel more comfortable? Then, one day at work this old man who was a regular asked me my name, and I always block when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
5 points

But they talk like if we do it, stutter will disappear...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
5 points

"Are you faking that"? "No". "You didn't stutter when you said no, you're obviously faking it"....

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
1 points

"It's not funny to play around like that." But ended being tangled up, so it is what it is. Maybe it was out of sympathy, but a w is a w....

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
4 points

I stuttered really bad in a drive thru at 3am and they called the cops on me for being drunk. That was fun....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStress & Fight/FlightHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
8 points

Stuttering is pretty weird. People do that cuz they don’t know how to react, and figure saying something is better than ignoring it. Like you I just don’t respond it anymore....

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
9 points

I’ve always wondered why people say this dumb shit? Is it to be funny? I’ve learned to not even respond or show a reaction when people do this and it has helped tremendously....

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
7 points

I was working at a fast food place and took an order up front, and had a hard time getting the “hello what can we get for you,” and had them ask me if I was making fun of them. 1. I don’t even know t...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
16 points

It was a couple weeks ago when I went in for a consultation with an oral surgeon. When he was asking questions during it I obviously started to stutter, when doing so he asked "What is this? Are you h...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingNeurological & Brain
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
5 points

Yikes! Reminds me of when I had secondary motions one time when ordering food, and someone asked me if I was cold. They thought I was shivering....

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
20 points

Classic 🤦‍♂️. It's still hurts as much as the first time I started having trouble with saying my name. I always think of the same 3 options in my head when I hear that phrase: 1. Laugh it off and t...

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Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
7 points

I stutter on my name too and multiple people have laughed at me and one lady asked me the same question :/...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
27 points

I don't think this is dumb per say, but when you manage to say a sentence fluently, and they say "What?" Then it's all downhill....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & MonitoringListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
3 points

Asked if i had to use the bathroom, i said no i have a stutter, they laughed and proceeded to point me to the bathroom...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
11 points

I struggled a bit introducing myself during a job interview and the interviewer said “ wow you forgot ur own name?” 😂😅...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
10 points

I had a hard block with a lot of secondary motions when talking with a bartender and she told me I didn’t have to malfunction...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionShame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
1 points

I try to be confident and accept my stutter but when i openly stutter instead of having Blocks or staying silent , my family is like why are stuttering again and you need to fix it and also i stutter...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2025
2 points

Yeah that’s exactly what I thought. Unfortunately a lot of us are quite insecure about our stutters so as soon as something goes wrong, the blame is immediately put on the stutter!...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 3, 2025
15 points

Did I get fired because of my stutter?

Did I get fired because of my stutter? Hello guys. Today, I was fired from work, which I suspect was because of my stutter. It was my first shift today, working in an IKEA. But at the end of my shift,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2025
3 points

As both a stutterer and unattractive/ugly person, I wanted none of my genes to be passed on. Haven't had children, and I'm VERY happy with that decision. I didn't want any potential kids to have eit...

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