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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

I also moved to a new school in 9th grade, going from 400+ (where I knew everyone) to 2500+ (where I knew no one). I didn't have a single friend for the first two years there because I was too afraid ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
1 points

same here that's my biggest fear with having kids too, if i even find anyone who can tolerate me enough to have kids with me....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

During College Orientation, in a room of 50, we had to go around and say our name, major, where we’re from, and what high school we come from. I couldn’t say anything and just told them I was nervous....

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
4 points

Does anybody else feel super marginalized at work?

Does anybody else feel super marginalized at work? My stutter has been a strike against me with pretty much every employer. The worst thing is that unlike racial or gender bias, it’s much less recog...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
1 points

New Call Center Job

New Call Center Job Hello everyone i’m new to this group. I guess I just wanted to say has anyone here worked in sales something similar to a call center. I’m currently doing training from home and I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
14 points

My story i guess

My story i guess Ive been lurking this subreddit for a while so i guess it’s time to post. Okay so i have stuttered since i was little but it hasn’t really been much of a problem until last year when...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
3 points

Keep it up! However if you are serious I'd recommend you to complement that therapy with a psychologist to treat that anxiety and social isolation; if you don't work all those issues, they will come ...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
18 points

Does anyone else find that they stutter way more around people they’re more comfortable with?

Does anyone else find that they stutter way more around people they’re more comfortable with? Hi! I’ve been lurking here for a while to try and make more sense of the feelings associated with stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
1 points

Sounds a lot like me. I had my lowest point about 2 years ago as well. Been recovering ever since, and I’ve never felt better. I’m more confident than I have ever been and it feels amazing to not be s...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
3 points

Hey! That's awesome. Congratulations! I hope it works out for you and you can work on pinpointing issues with your speech, and get some work in. I think speech therapy as an adult can be beneficial...

Therapy & ProfessionalCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyEnergy & Biological RhythmsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
3 points

Exposure therapy mostly (never avoiding talking even when I have the option to) once I start avoiding things like ordering food or talking on the phone and stuff like that they become worse for me. I...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

We just gotta keep on trying to go forward, taking about these issues with other people in your life helps, though I think people have a hard time understanding things like problems on the phone. Usin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
3 points

I'd like to know too. I don't know if I really have social anxiety about my stutter. I've learnt to live with it pretty well but I'm very aware of how my anxiety levels affect my stutter. I have a few...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
2 points

I've never tried those techniques but it it works it works. I know mine is tied to how anxious i am so I just try to decrease my anxiety levels all the time...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 8, 2020
7 points

Stuttering as a form of negative autosuggestion/self hypnosis

Stuttering as a form of negative autosuggestion/self hypnosis So, over quite a long time I have formed this theory about how my stutter works. I say 'my stutter' because I think it's entirely possible...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & PsychologicalVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
5 points

My stutter doesn't really change like yours, it just depends on the situation i'm in or the person i'm talking to and how many people are listening to me i think. Btw telling a person that they're fak...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

Generally, people don't stutter at all when speaking to children and only a bit when speaking to friends and family. As you go up the hierachy of unfamiliar and people in authority, stuttering incre...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

Generally, people don't stutter at all when speaking to children and only a bit when speaking to friends and family. As you go up the hierachy of unfamiliar and people in authority, stuttering increas...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
2 points

That is very normal. It's because you feel that the spotlight is completely on you, as if you are under a magnifying glass. Many people who stutter feel that everyone focuses on their every word and s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
1 points

I think it's the same with me. If I feel like I'm being judged or evaluated, I stutter a whole lot more. Problem being that I tend to attribute some level of authority or respect to most people older ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation