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postr/StutterMay 29, 2021
13 points

Hiding in the bathroom

Hiding in the bathroom At a friends party. Too many new people and a round of introductions going on. Naturally I found an excuse to leave and now hiding in the washroom till the conversation moves on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
2 points

Haha I can relate. Instead of paging my coworker on the walkie talkie I would walk to the other side of the building to find him and relay a message....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
3 points

this. i’ve noticed it makes you stutter less too, but i’m too nervous to tell people i have it until it somehow gets brought up...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterMay 29, 2021
7 points

Really annoyed that someone made fun of my stutter

Really annoyed that someone made fun of my stutter Hi guys! Okay so I'll try to keep this short. Basically, I have a stutter but I haven't been diagnosed. I repeat syllables, words, get complete block...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
3 points

If you use a lot of filler words he 100% doesn't know that you stutter. He may have been poking fun like "Oh it's one of those basic people that say ummmm a lot" Just tell him...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
1 points

I can usually manage my stutter pretty well but i usually use my middle name when ordering food becuase i stutter on my first name....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterMay 28, 2021
16 points

I got made fun of about my stutter for the first time.

I got made fun of about my stutter for the first time. So as the title said I got made fun of about my stutter for the first time. I haven't been diagnosed with a stutter yet, but it's definitely ther...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterMay 28, 2021
8 points

Stuttering interfering with life ...

Stuttering interfering with life ... My stuttering has gotten sever. My stutter mostly consists of blocks and it’s like a lot of tension probably I’m not breathing I really dint know and it’s like a e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
2 points

Very relatable, especially the “I want to say so much but can’t.” That is quite unbearable to think, but the way I overcame is finding a way to express myself without words and I do that through guita...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
3 points

Nice. I found drive throughs to be a nice intermediate between voluntary stuttering on a simple phone call (ordering a pizza or whatever) and in person (in line at a coffee shop). You don’t have to ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
4 points

Not extreme, but things I wouldn’t do if I was fluent: I’ve cycled through 2-3 different names when ordering at Starbucks. I’ve walked across multiple buildings to talk to a coworker instead of a 1 m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
3 points

It’s a struggle to say thank you as well maybe 50% of the time. There’s a short window of time to do it since it typically marks the end of the interaction then the other person walks away. I lean a l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterMay 28, 2021
1 points

What is the most extreme thing you've done or said to avoid a situation?

What is the most extreme thing you've done or said to avoid a situation? If it's using fake names or weird excuses for avoiding oral presentations, let's hear it!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 28, 2021
123 points

Stuttering on purpose during drive-thru, sharing my thoughts about the fascination of fluency :)

Stuttering on purpose during drive-thru, sharing my thoughts about the fascination of fluency :) ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
1 points

Ordering at a bar has been a tough scenario. All the loudness and especially the cross talk make it hard. Silver lining though, I have gotten a few free drinks out of it! Bartenders have made awkwa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med OutcomesListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
5 points

Shit man, I feel you. I hate how I “struggle” to say “thank you” or “have a nice day.” Not really sure how to fix it, and I’m worried I never will....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
11 points

I totally understand this man. I want to say so many things you people and just have a chat with them, but because i know im going to stutter i just say nothing and People think im weird and antisocia...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & BelongingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 28, 2021
31 points

Stutter unintentionally makes me appear rude.

Stutter unintentionally makes me appear rude. Hi i just wanted to vent some pent up emotions. So a little history, even though my stutter was apparent from a young age my parents just always denied it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

I can't keep a tab open because I always stutter on my last name. So I just immediately close after every drink and that gets me weird looks, but at least I don't have the awkwardness of looking like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

Me too but I feel it doesn’t help in the long run. sounds like eye gazing would help with acceptance...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution