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postr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
8 points

Oh the things I could accomplish if I didn't let this stutter have power over me...

Oh the things I could accomplish if I didn't let this stutter have power over me... ...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
48 points

The mental anguish associated with dealing with it all. Planning out what you're going to say at an event months in advanced. It's mentally taxing and physically draining. They will never understand t...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
24 points

The feeling of anxiousness tied to stuttering, not just public speaking. A great metaphor I learned was to explain it to people as if they were tasked with walking across a wooden beam. If the beam i...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
1 points

Being a slave to the stutter is the worse. I know how you feel about not making any new friends after highschool. That sounds just like me. I still haven’t figured out what to do. I’m just trying to g...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
6 points

Sooo true. I often feel the same when playing videogames or watching movies for example. There are all that cool people in all that cool situations, but you know you wouldn't be as cool as them. I try...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
4 points

A rant

A rant Tried writing this about three times but either ended tearing up whilst writing or just couldn’t put it into words so imma try again. Two years later and I’m seeing that I’m facing the conseq...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
6 points

It was never about your stutter bro if she really wanted you she would have stayed no matter what....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2025
1 points

I know that feeling. The last months I have a strong thought of quitting my job. My stuttering is severe and I almost can't communicate.... My colleagues feel sorry for me. They all look at me like I'...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2025
1 points

Before I used to ignore it as well. But now(I'm 16M) I am also starting to get tired of it, it's starting to mentally burn me. I totally understand you. The effort of trying to just be normal, is just...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
19 points

Nobody has told me that having a speech impediment is okay. How damaging is this on a subconscious level?

Nobody has told me that having a speech impediment is okay. How damaging is this on a subconscious level? The shame and embarrassed that comes with living with this is truly hell on earth dreading eve...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
2 points

Hello friend.  I’m a software engineer and have been at a place for about a year now. How do you handle circumstances when you just look like an absolute idiot and begin to feel incompetent despite n...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2025
1 points

I don’t know. Most of my work is behind the scenes - writing briefings, applying for grants, sending lots of emails. I know it’s a mindset issue. What’s hard for me is I feel like I’m taking a step in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2025
13 points

Struggling with Stuttering, Low Confidence, and Social Isolation – Should I Try Therapy?

Struggling with Stuttering, Low Confidence, and Social Isolation – Should I Try Therapy? I'm 22 years old, and I’ve been struggling with stuttering for the past 5-6 years. After closely observing my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2025
1 points

You seem like a weird guy from your profile but fyi stuttering is not under anyone’s control. If you were born with one arm would you blame your self?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
3 points

Why are you being such an asshole, if you stutter you know that even if you have techniques sometimes they don't work....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

24 yo, i was about to drop school cuz study make me suck , but when family force me to study , stutter return harder , i wish it reduced by the time , i feel like there's rock above my head and everyt...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
1 points

My understanding is that Dr. Maguire is a stutterer himself and that he treats people who stutter. I don’t know his methods but would like to speak with him to find out more. ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
-10 points

Use your techniques and just don’t stutter. It’s all within your control, so just hold it together. It’s your own fault that you stutter 👍...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
31 points

Teams meeting embarrassment

Teams meeting embarrassment I was in a Teams (aka zoom) meeting today. I work for a nonprofit but my job is funded by the DOI so I work closely with them. We were in a meeting discussing our potential...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

Yup.  Need to be grounded in reality and take emotions out of it.   It'd ultimately what you value you bring to the table.  Unfortunately stuttering decreases ours.   It doesn't eliminate us, but it's...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency