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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
8 points

I agree. I like to joke about my stutter around my friends it makes having one not as a bad for me. But overall I agree....

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
3 points

i have a stutter and have managed to find a girlfriend that i’ve been with for 3 years now. any decent girl will look past a speech impediment, i wouldn’t worry too much about it....

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
2 points

Hmmm... After childhood you can't cure your stutter. The best thing to do it's to accept it and try your best to improve techniques that may help your speech....

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
2 points

I did Model UN in high school as someone who stutters. My main advice is to do a lot of prep work so you feel confident in what you're saying. My larger advice is to look into Avoidance Reduction Ther...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
2 points

I think that if someone don't give you respect because you stutter, they neither deserve your respect :) I see my speaking problem as a 'filter': I don't need asshole friends who think stuttering is f...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
5 points

No. It’s a feature, not a bug. I do not allow my stutter to keep me from doing anything....

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
1 points

Mostly recognise this as that i have become immume to embarrassment by of years of daily shaming. Very inspirational indeed...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2019
1 points

Thanks for this! I'm really happy for you that you're accepting and coming in terms with your stuttering. I'll definitely try my best, slowly but surely....

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2019
1 points

I think that you should be the first one to accept that you stutter and that it doesn't have to be any problem to develop yourself. I someone makes a joke about your stuttering, wanting to make friend...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2019
1 points

The wim hoff breathing technique is really great for relieving stress and anxiety before beginning your day. https://youtu.be/nzCaZQqAs9I But when I’m out in public, and I’m really nervous about my st...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
5 points

I got told by a girl my stutter was cute when we were at a bar. Thought it was an odd comment, but we went home and had sex like 20 times over the weekend, so I guess its all cool....

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
1 points

1. Be attractive 2. don't be unattractive no but really just remember to breathe and don't psych yourself out. every girl I've dated or gone out on dates with (which is like 6 or 7 so not much but st...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
2 points

The shame is real. I admitted that I stuttered once to a therapist and just broke down because of the shame. I will say it’s gets better. This is personal and in no way advice, but when I decided to...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
3 points

It took sometime. One day I realized it was something I would have forever so I decided it could be worse. Then I actually started making jokes about it and I started being more open about it. The mor...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
1 points

best advice i can give - just go for it. introduce yourself to new people, even tell them that you stutter and that it’s just a normal thing, not something to laugh at. you’ll find a friend...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
3 points

how did you gain that confidence of liking your stutter? and how do u ignore what people might think about your stutter ?...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
1 points

try controlling your reaction next time someone makes a joke about stuttering .... slowly you will be able to control your emotions and be chill around people. personally i ignore or act like i igno...

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postr/StutterJun 12, 2019
9 points

Does anyone else get told this?

Does anyone else get told this? I was talking to some classmates the other day and we were talking about why people got bullied. I said "for me it's because the way I talk." They looked at me like I w...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
2 points

You make a good point. Be honest I may just be a wierd person. Honestly I would rather suffer the moments of a stutter and gain self respect then being able to just communicate normally. Hell the conf...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
4 points

I would keep it because I dont see it in a negative way. Dont get me wrong I have my moments were communication is a nightmare. When i really get stuck on a word i make a stupid face that i hate. But ...

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