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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2025
1 points

people need to stop feeling sorry for themselves and do something about their problems instead of getting beat by it...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2025
2 points

Before joining uni, i had the same thoughts, should i join uni or not. But i decided to go for it, i have just started my uni life. Everything is still same - my stuttering, anxiety, social awkwardne...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterMar 5, 2025
32 points

Crying right now

Crying right now Being around people makes me feel alienated. I’m never included in anything and I’m always ignored. I feel like a failure because of my stutter. I feel like if I didn’t have a stutter...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2025
1 points

I'm 28 and still with a stutter I feel behind in life because of my stutter...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2025
1 points

Not everyone but most people behave this ways . exceptions don't change the rule .life sucks for a normal guys too .let alone a guy with a disability couldn't even say his own name . It's mostly over...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2025
5 points

No bro, not judging. It's the opportunity cost which I'm bargaining for. I meant, losing a situation just for the sake of my stammer is pulling down all my effort made for knowledge....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
12 points

I treat myself the way my mind feels most comfortable. I don’t put myself in situations where I’m going to stutter a lot or be of any inconvenience to anyone. I work/look for work where I can work m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
1 points

What kind of things do you mean? Like coping mechanisms? I’m sorry people are blaming you for not achieving as much because of your stutter… they really just don’t know what it’s like. It’s an invis...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterMar 2, 2025
47 points

I can’t do that because of my stutter…

I can’t do that because of my stutter… Well what can I do?… survive. I can’t work because of my stutter. I can’t make money because of my stutter I can’t trust people because I trusted the wrong pe...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerDating & Romance+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
3 points

I just do things that I otherwise wouldn’t because of my stutter. And then my stutter flairs up. I get blamed for the life I live because I’m not living up to my full potential. But I’m not living up ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2025
1 points

That feeling is really such a killer. The way you think avoiding the discomfort of stuttering is going to make you feel better, only to realize how limited and caged you choose to be when you let your...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2025
3 points

Hey, my GCSE’s are approaching soon too. I’d say it depends on wether you think you can manage your stutter in the exam or not. It’s better to not do the speaking test and still score very high in you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
8 points

Does anyone suffer of brain-fog too?

Does anyone suffer of brain-fog too? In my opinion, for someone who stutters it's mandatory for us to keep one's mind full of knowledge. We need to have thoughts about possible everything, because tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
1 points

Don't be so sure of what you can't do. I knew I'd never speak fluently at your age. I was wrong. Regret lasts a very long time. Embarrassment and frustration fade pretty quickly. Avoid regret, it wil...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
7 points

I have an app called big note, you can type and maximise the font to fill the whole screen. It’s so convenient and it makes people’s life easier. But same my stutter became worse than ever to the poin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

I wish I could do that but my father is sick and I have to take care of him which automatically makes me stay with her. Although I hate every second of it - but I cannot abandon my father....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

I’ve done this exact same thing. And I’ve felt so much worse for missing it because I felt I let myself down and I let my stutter control me. The only way forward is going through it man. Even if you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
6 points

More blocks could be indicative of stuttering less freely. Combined with the fact that you struggle with starting conversations, and it is situational, fear and other negative emotions are probably p...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

Afraid I’ve got some bad news for you. The more you keep avoiding speaking situations things are not going to improve, if anything they are going to continue to get a lot worse....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

It’s clear that you care deeply about your husband and are trying hard to make things better, and that effort should absolutely be acknowledged. You’re actively trying to adapt, and you’ve already tak...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension+3 more