Search

commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
1 points

I have too many to count šŸ˜… But really, it's really dependent on the person and why you are feeling unsafe to get judged. Feel free to shoot me a DM and we can dig deeper...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests
postr/StutterMay 29, 2021
13 points

Hiding in the bathroom

Hiding in the bathroom At a friends party. Too many new people and a round of introductions going on. Naturally I found an excuse to leave and now hiding in the washroom till the conversation moves on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
2 points

Yes, my dad would mock/imitate me, tell me to slow down, etc. It definitely contributed to my anxiety around speaking. That was a long time ago as a young child, and has passed away 10+ years ago. My ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & PsychologicalValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
5 points

You are definitely not fighting this alone bud, I have a moderate/severe stutter, and as a person who is dealing with the same problem, I have no advice unfortunately, I'm still looking for assistance...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
2 points

hey your anticipation is maybe making it worse. I always believed stuttering starts way before the word is spoken and this is a great example. you got to ask yourself, what's the worst that can happen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
3 points

Omg exactly. The morning audio meets! Somehow the pandemic and not being able to see people made it worse for me....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Energy & Biological RhythmsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
6 points

Im sorry it didnt work out for you. My experience with therapy is sometimes its 1 step forward and 2 steps back. I remember I was at a party and it took me a solid 3 minutes to get my name out...and I...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesSadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
14 points

This is hella inspiring! I stuttered the other day getting my order and the man told me not to be scared but really, it just happens even if I’m not scared. It does feel liberating when starting to le...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterMay 28, 2021
1 points

What is the most extreme thing you've done or said to avoid a situation?

What is the most extreme thing you've done or said to avoid a situation? If it's using fake names or weird excuses for avoiding oral presentations, let's hear it!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
4 points

It's Good Morning for me exactly like OP. Since I stutter worse during calls, and we have been WFH, morning calls make me anxious. If someone greets me first I can reply with just 'Morning', but I st...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
5 points

Shit man, I feel you. I hate how I ā€œstruggleā€ to say ā€œthank youā€ or ā€œhave a nice day.ā€ Not really sure how to fix it, and I’m worried I never will....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
11 points

I totally understand this man. I want to say so many things you people and just have a chat with them, but because i know im going to stutter i just say nothing and People think im weird and antisocia...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & BelongingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 28, 2021
31 points

Stutter unintentionally makes me appear rude.

Stutter unintentionally makes me appear rude. Hi i just wanted to vent some pent up emotions. So a little history, even though my stutter was apparent from a young age my parents just always denied it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

Yep they think I can choose when not to stutter and when to stutter. And when I keep on stuttering afterwards they act as if I didn't listen to them and they think I'm not even trying and they get rea...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
5 points

Especially when the music is loud and the bartender can barely hear you anyway lmao it’s just an anxiety mine field...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterMay 27, 2021
8 points

Anybody else feel really uncomfortable at bars?

Anybody else feel really uncomfortable at bars? Especially when going up and ordering a drink. For me, the stuttering gets so much worse. It’s probably one of my bigger anxieties. I haven’t been to on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

I hope I have the strength to be open about it to my parents but I’m too scared. Yea my stutter doesn’t define who I am, it helped me become who I am today but it doesn’t define me, I just see it as...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

Bro that’s so wrong I don’t feel anxity and I don’t have fear at all bc I don’t care about it but i stutter like hell so is not problem there...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

I totally relate my guy, it can feel like a damn warzone trying to start a sentence alone, hang in there bro :)...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
3 points

I think that also depends on the size of your class. Luckily, we have smaller study groups where we need to solve problems together, as opposed to sitting in a full virtual class of about ~30 people. ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeSchool & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more