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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2025
2 points

Finish college, get a job. Climb the ladder to upto management. Once i have the experience, i’ll quit and shoot my shot on starting my own startup. Get married and have children. I could also go to an...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2025
0 points

One, you type like you're on acid, and you have no credentials to speak of. Two, let's say that you are completely right that stuttering is just brain chemistry. I personally think my own stutter is,...

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postr/StutterMar 12, 2025
12 points

Reminder: You DONT have to judge yourselves by others standards

Reminder: You DONT have to judge yourselves by others standards This is a reminder for me, but also for all of you: Its very tempting to look at your old classmates or your siblings/cousins who a...

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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2025
1 points

I agree. I always get told that I should accept it, that it's just a part of me, it makes me unique, etc but that doesn't solve anything. I'm a freak. I have so much to say but I can't say it. I give ...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2025
11 points

That’s our life mate, don’t give up! I have been in really great companies (that im sure you know) with really bad interviews! The true is that most of them don’t really care about our stuttering. Als...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2025
6 points

Couldn’t have put it better myself. Acceptance is key. If you go through life avoiding speaking and living in fear of what other people may or may not be thinking it’ll stop you loving your best possi...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2025
2 points

At this point I just feel like I'm in a cage like I can't do anything all I can do is go like on social media and write comments or play games like I can't have friends cuz they will make fun of me an...

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postr/StutterMar 10, 2025
1 points

How to discuss (from an ally)

How to discuss (from an ally) So as a greeting to ppl here, I am someone without speech challenges generally other than ADHD which causes me to blank on words in meetings etc. My husband & I are olde...

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postr/StutterMar 10, 2025
26 points

stuttering is worst

stuttering is worst like if you been born without feet all world would sympathize with you and you get benefits from goverment but in stuttering you get no help and you are perfectly healthy and norma...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2025
1 points

Okay, then replace treat with cure. There isn't one. You then conflated management and the treatment of sorts that makes it all go away. Your looking for a magical pill to swallow then you go about...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2025
1 points

I disagree. Stuttering can not be treated. It can only be managed and reduced. It's this denialism that is causing people suffering that they think that some new idea or method will spark a full bl...

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postr/StutterMar 10, 2025
18 points

i cant take this anymore man

i cant take this anymore man im 18m and ive alwyas had a stutter since i was a kid. its not a heavy one but still one that affects me daily (stutter blocks). I have went through 4 years of high school...

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postr/StutterMar 9, 2025
6 points

Will it ever get better

Will it ever get better Hey all, I just joined this sub Reddit to ask for advice for my stuttering, I’m 16 and have struggled with stuttering for my whole life to the point where I don’t speak often b...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2025
1 points

I'm the OP, just on a different name. Well I made it to the academy, but I let the stutter beat me. Long story short, before leaving the academy I was met with several people from my department that t...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2025
3 points

I am going through the same exact thing as you right now. Having a stutter is just shitty as of right now. I don’t have too much hope in the future, just pushing through it....

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2025
6 points

And I don’t like this thinking. Stuttering is a disability. It doesn’t matter if someone has it worse, we still have it hard too. Saying someone should be thankful is just silencing them and invading ...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2025
2 points

Good for you but I don’t think we should say that confidence is the main solution, as I still stutter and I’m confident. People still mock me and laugh at me. Like a large majority of stutterers have ...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2025
1 points

Right, it's kinda narrow minded to just say "go to the gym, stay confident, yada yada". It's like with depressed people, saying stuff like go to the gym usually doesn't help. Yeah sure it helped you....

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2025
2 points

I really understand you because i go through the same thing. I always ask myself why can’t I just speak freely, it really impact my mental health so much because it affects everything I do for example...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2025
5 points

I’m glad you’re fortunate enough to feel like you can conquer anything that life throws at you, but consider yourself lucky. Not everyone has the option to pull themselves up and do something about t...

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