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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

Ok thanks so much i’m comfortable with it but just afraid I may stutter constantly and people will think i’m incompetent for the job...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
6 points

Are YOU comfortable with it? That’s all that matters. Cashiers typically don’t have to say a ton, obviously depending on where exactly you’re working. It’s not like a call center job or something. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

It doesn't do much if they don't understand stuttering and if they think it's a personality flaw...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
2 points

Now that is a creative narrative! Yeah my point was “people on disability shouldn’t date” nailed it. Stuttering or not you are hard to communicate with. My point is not pointing. Have a good one. My s...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

“I’m dating a guy in a wheelchair and I don’t know if it’s because he can’t walk or what but he can’t go up stairs and I love stairs, really puts in wrench in walking” to answer your question yes. I w...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

God stutterers are f-ed. Just leave him. Now we have 20 people who don’t stutter talking about him. The humiliation is palpable....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

I wouldn't bring it up, let him bring it up. And he is doing mental gymnastics constantly every minute of everyday just to try to speak clearly. He will bring it up eventually, you have to give him so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

If you’re matching with women who aren’t asking about you then you’re matching with the wrong ones. I think when you bring it up might depend on how severe or noticeable it is. In the case of the pe...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

I agree, yet this type of thinking for a lot of men especially can make them feel like they are showing vulnerability or not being secure in themselves. I often messaged people I was going on dates ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

How long have you dated him? Give him some time to open up and get more comfortable and his humor will come out in no time:-) whatever you do, don't try to fill in the words for him when he pauses. :-...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

Honestly, it all depends on the day and I’m feeling nervous or anxious more anxious. Some days my speech is fluid and I think “wow “ then others I’m like “ damnn” 🤣🤣where I have blocking or I get st...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
2 points

I see you asking about will it reduce over time etc. Obviously, every stutter /stutterer is different, but I have a stutter similar to what you're describing. I tell people I am not a first impressi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
2 points

Stress, nervousness, anxiety will all cause stutter to be worse. That’s almost 100% true. Stutter does fluctuate. It will be less or more. In my son’s case he does not repeat words or sentences, he ge...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

Wouldn’t it be up to him to bring it up, though? What the heck am I supposed to say? “I noticed you stutter sometimes, am I doing something to make it worse/how can I help?” Literally any version of t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

Yeah mine comes and goes with different severity. Usually, if I don't try controlling my breathing, it gets worse. Being nervous definitely plays a role, but not just that, being in a public space wi...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightCycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

What are the triggers that make it worse for you? Does it come and go in cycles? What role could being nervous play here? Will it possibly ease up or reduce over time?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

What are the triggers that make it worse for you? Does it come and go in cycles? What role could being nervous play here? Will it possibly ease up or reduce over time?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

What are the triggers that make it worse for you? Does it come and go in cycles? What role could being nervous play here? Will it possibly ease up or reduce over time?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
1 points

What are the triggers that make it worse for you? Does it come and go in cycles? What role could being nervous play here? Will it possibly ease up or reduce over time?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2025
2 points

What are the triggers that make it worse for you? Does it come and go in cycles? What role could being nervous play here? Will it possibly ease up or reduce over time?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment