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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2015
6 points

My stutter is very mild--I've been at my job for 6 months and my boss didn't notice it until last week. MANY times, when I stumble over a word, people think I'm making a joke, because it seems to come...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2015
1 points

I dont see the point in sending another email. Sounds like you want them to confirm your worst fear and tell you they didnt pick you because of your stutter. Well they're not going to do that and they...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2015
1 points

I would never say a disclaimer. I actually use it pretty often when the question about adversity or struggle in my life. It's gold!...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2015
1 points

It seems to be different for everybody. For instance, I can speak in front of very large groups of complete strangers with barely a stutter. I've had friends I've known for a while that never even kne...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2015
1 points

Holy shit, I made an account just to say how true what the biker guy said in the end is. He said about stuttering being a teacher but a very harsh teach at that and that is what I have come to realiz...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalPersonal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2015
1 points

I think people "cringe" in different ways. Doesn't sound necessarily stutter-related to me?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2015
1 points

Every day. I would be a completely different person. I sometimes feel there is a version 2.0 hidden inside me that is confident and witty, and he sometimes comes out to but then reclines back in as ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2015
2 points

Two remarks here (which boil down to the same, actually). The first, is that you actually performed the first instance of the sentence perfectly. That's a win. But we usually don't see it that way, I...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2015
1 points

Exactly! Just like having a stammer doesn't make you a bad communicator. It's only one tiny part of communication. Some people stammer. Some people have a lisp. Some people mumble. Some people speak ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2015
3 points

Wow I only found this subreddit today too, that's weird! Yeah I'd love to offer some advice! I'll try to organise the answers the best I can. First of all, our situations seem to be very similar. I'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2015
1 points

I'm attracted to men who stutter too. I just find it unique and interesting. It melts my heart. ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 17, 2015
6 points

The difference between the term stutterer and person who stutter. YouTube video.

The difference between the term stutterer and person who stutter. YouTube video. ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2015
2 points

I think the same things sometimes. I may have been less empathetic a person, maybe I would have been an asshole. Stuttering really humbles a person. Still would love not to have it though....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2015
14 points

All the time. I think of the positives, but also of the negatives, as should you. Positives of *not* developing a stutter: Less social anxiety, able to say what you want when you want, one less thing...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterApr 6, 2015
1 points

PWS looking to work with other PWS. Hoping to see if I can help make a positive change in life and speech of someone else who stutters.

PWS looking to work with other PWS. Hoping to see if I can help make a positive change in life and speech of someone else who stutters. You can look through my post history to see some blog posts I've...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Advice OfferedHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2015
1 points

No specific event, mainly just getting older I think. Maybe you start getting a career, a wife, and that sort of stuff and now stuttering doesn't seem like that big of a deal in comparison. If someo...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2015
3 points

Thank you. This is exactly how I feel. Stutter left some negative marks on me, but it was also a gift that made me into person I am today and I am grateful for that....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2015
7 points

...a gift and a curse likewise. The bad side is that i have a mild social anxiety, but i am working on that (with great success). But without stuttering in my past i wouldn't be the person i am no...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2015
3 points

I know what you mean. In my class, I'm fairly popular as in many people look up to me because of my social nature (and yes, I stutter) and good grades. Then, it was time for oral presentations and I f...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2015
4 points

You've mentioned a really big obstacle for me. I've had women show interest but I push them away. It kills my self esteem and makes me feel really unsexy. I've accepted that I'll probably always stutt...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception