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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
2 points

There is actually an Archery club near me, I guess I could give it a go. I find meeting new people very scary though...

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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
4 points

I think you know what you need to do already. You've recognised that you're not happy, and the lifestyle you're currently living is not sustainable. That's good. You've already made the first step. ...

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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
15 points

Use that good money you’re making to invest in yourself. You can do this in a couple of ways: first look for a good therapist, not a speech therapist, but a psychologist. This will help on two front...

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postr/StutterSep 6, 2024
34 points

How can I live a normal life?

How can I live a normal life? Hello, I really need help - I am so lost and tired. My 20's have been rough, many ups and downs. Over the past 2 years (26-28) I have been doing well in my career, I h...

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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
1 points

I think trying to meet someone on a bus without a stutter could be awkward. Also, hey, you tried. It might be easier to online date through the apps and put in there that you have a stutter. Just be u...

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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
1 points

I agree with what you wrote I known that I’ve stuttered since I was a child but it wasn’t much of a problem I wasn’t as insecure about it as I’m now I’m 25 . When I was. 22,23,24 I was dating being my...

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postr/StutterSep 5, 2024
9 points

When was the first time you didn’t stutter with someone?

When was the first time you didn’t stutter with someone? It was my first girlfriend in high school. It was so liberating. I didn’t have a constant rush to get my words out. The only thing I felt was c...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
0 points

"I had some girls as friends in past, because of my nature I pushed them away, they all were very good friends." Im curious what do you mean by that? You had girls as friend and its success as stutte...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
0 points

That’s sucks man and I’ve definitely been there more than a few times now throughout my life. I felt that way for a very long time, but being with my Ex Girlfriend changed my perspective. Our relation...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
3 points

I had the same thoughts as you, I'm male, 21. But recently I finally found a girlfriend. She's the best you can imagine and says that she doesn't care about it. Hang on, the right person is waiting fo...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
3 points

First of all like others said, there is no problem with not having a girlfriend. But also, it sounds like you're self-sabotaging yourself by pushing away female friends and hating yourself for the way...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
2 points

I saw your age in a other post. You're still young, you've got all the time in the world to find someone. Approaching strangers is a very difficult thing to do, regardless of your speech fluency. You...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
8 points

Stutterer of 23 years here and no that's not true. I stutter like a nervous kid in front of an audience with stage freight, however I have a girlfriend I've been with for 4 years now. It's not impossi...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
2 points

We all have something that we work on in life (stuttering or something else). You will find a person who likes/loves you based on shared interests or passion. Do you like animals? Volunteer at a shelt...

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postr/StutterSep 4, 2024
35 points

Stutterer, never had girlfriend

Stutterer, never had girlfriend I was always think that I will never be with a girl in my life, because my life sucks and I never wanted to ruin the life of a girl by being with her. I always stayed...

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postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

So question

So question Let’s assume when you used to stutter, you didn’t find love due to your stuttering even tho you tried several times and fortunately you have managed to have 90% fluency..will you still bel...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

Take it from someone who has a Ph.D in female rejection. Women hate guys who stutter. Try just do. They cannot stand us. They see us as weak, mentally disabled, uneducated, unintelligent, and pathetic...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

The girl waitress at the restaurant I went to tonight was really cute. I was able to crack a joke or two and make her smile, and I think she was into me. A buddy said me would give her my number, but ...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
2 points

I am 26 M, and i dated so many girls, and everyone liked me; i had 5 girl friends, and everyone accepted if, even if stuck on my speaking alot, how to deal with it?just say to yourself, i know what I'...

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commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
2 points

Gonna be honest, you shouldn’t blind date if you stutter. Odds are going to be greatly against you with the instant judgment. My dh is the main stutter. I had a very mild case and it only came out whe...

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