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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
3 points

i understand you, I'm considered a standard person, handsome, I know how to dress, anyway, I take great care of my self-esteem and I'm vain, but what does all that matter to me if sometimes I can bare...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
3 points

This is the way. If a stranger or acquaintance brought up my stutter, I would never speak again in their presence....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
2 points

I didn't answer my phone for about 4 years. My solution was to force myself to use the phone. I called shops to ask when they would close. I would ask when my energy deal ended. I would say i had a st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2025
1 points

Yes, but because I didn't stutter he might have blown me off. He did prescribe a very common antidepressant that made things worse. My stutter is situational. I stutter badly when trying to explain an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
1 points

By making eye contact, you are telling yourself, and following through, that your voice deserves to take up space. Very very difficult got many tho...

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postr/StutterMar 20, 2025
8 points

Thinking about making a youtube channel but I don't know if I can.

Thinking about making a youtube channel but I don't know if I can. I've posted here before, took it down because I'm shy and I forgot the login for this account for months😭 (apologies for anyone I di...

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Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
3 points

I totally agree with you in the case of avoiding eye contact. I also believe thats easier, emotionally saying, to not make eye contact with your listener, as you don't have this instant feedback that ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
1 points

It’s probably just due to shame. You assume your listener will have a horrified expression (or mocking) when they hear you speak. So, by looking away, you are ā€œconfirmingā€ you are correct. But by ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
1 points

how are you managing? i stuttered a lot but in my native languages (english specially) is not an issue anymore. i guess it’s a confidence thing. i failed to learn french because of this but now im ...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
0 points

Great post! Avoiding eye contact by looking down/away is one of those gross motor movements that reinforces the fear response in the moment. For many, after practicing alone and with safe people, s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical TensionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2025
2 points

I honestly don’t know why, but I whenever I think I’m about to block, I keep my chest up and make myself seem confident, cus really with this is you fake it till you make it. Also, I also occasionally...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
7 points

Agree with the comments above. My own experience: I had a terrible experience presenting at a law firm many years ago. Almost total block. Now, twenty years later, I’m absolutely confident in those si...

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Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2025
2 points

48F and blocking! Mostly hidden but more and more apparent if I speak with more people (I hate work calls)....

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & ConcealmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2025
2 points

Hey I’m 28F and I stutter. I have sound repetitions and prolongation. Currently working at a daycare and it’s tough with kids and talking to parents but I just gotta keep going...

Speech & StutteringSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Repetitions & ProlongationsBlocks & StoppagesSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2025
1 points

When you stop stuttering it is very gradual as thoughts of it slowly diminish, mine seem to happen in the background. It wasn’t a big event like I had always imagined. However I had a lifetime of stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2025
1 points

You may be interested to know that OP seems to be describing a classic covert stutter, which is a more advanced (worse) form bc it means you are having something that’s almost a mini-panic attack at t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2025
2 points

That solidly confirms that you have a standard covert stutter. Try this link...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2025
1 points

I stutter when alone when I practice or when I put a difficult letter in my mind and think about it...

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Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2025
1 points

This is painful because you become a stutterer and a non-stutterer at the same time, and some people are surprised if you stutter in front of them because I used to talk to them normally and I didn't ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2025
2 points

Sounds like a pretty classic covert stutter. Regarding why you stutter when alone - is it happening when you are imagining talking to someone, or practicing saying something you usually block on?...

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