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commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
1 points

I understand. We can't even  talk about our feelings/experience here without people be like '' ohh it's all in your head!! All you need is confidence !!'' well...people are mean. And even if they are ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2025
2 points

I think you are looking for an easy or overnight fix and the sooner you accept that isn’t going to happen the sooner you can improve your life. Having a stutter isn’t an end all be all you are making ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StammerNov 14, 2025
1 points

im 18yo and struggling with stammer🥀i cant socialise ,i pronounce the things that i want to buy 🥀struggling to introduce myself 🥀life sucks as you said 🥀even i got so much points in an argument i ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
postr/StutterNov 14, 2025
1 points

Important interview tmr & can’t sleep

Important interview tmr & can’t sleep Hey, new here, is anyone else up? I’ve been unable to sleep for a couple nights because of my interview tomorrow. I stutter during these anxiety provoking situa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

Yeah it makes me feel pretty bad so I stutter more....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

Sertaline is an anti-anxiety medication, similar to Fluoxetine, Lexapro, Xanax etc… I take Fluoxetine to address my anxiety which indirectly helps with my speech fluency since I’m not as anxious in s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

I don’t have experience with sertraline but I am going through the same as you with job interviews, it’s so defeating...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

Yeah I’m not saying it’s impossible but I feel like it’s good to be aware that the reality is harsh ☹️. Why would it affect men more than women? Men also like confident women. It goes both ways....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

Question regarding medication

Question regarding medication I have a mild stutter, but it gets worse when I do job interviews. I have been really struggling to find a full time job in my field. Hence, I went to a doctor and told h...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesSide Effects & RisksAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

idk...I feel as long as your stutter is not too severe you could still have good chances of finding someone. Stuttering is sometimes seen as a confidence issue and lowkey that affects men more so than...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

Yeah I would say its hard to have good social skills and a severe stutter as social skills are like a muscle which requires work but when you talk like your having a stroke every 30 seconds like mysel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/Stutter_remissionNov 13, 2025
1 points

In my opinion: Part #3: Sanjeeva stated: *"I do not stutter in new situations such as speaking to a stranger at a bus stop, or in a critical situation such as angrily arguing with a landlord. So I b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/Stutter_remissionNov 13, 2025
1 points

In my opinion: Part #2: Sanjeeva stated: *"Sanjeeva did not remember experiencing any moments of anxiety in his pre-teens while he stuttered away."* **My reply**: When a toddler learns to speak mor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

It’s hard to do, but be confident in spite of the stutter. In my experience women don’t react poorly to the stutter, they react poorly to my reaction to my stutter....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 13, 2025
10 points

I'm studying nursing, there are a lot of girls on campus but I can't impress even one because of my stutter

I'm studying nursing, there are a lot of girls on campus but I can't impress even one because of my stutter ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/Stutter_remissionNov 13, 2025
1 points

In my opinion: I think the model that Sanjeeva visualizes (between speech planning and the outward manifestations) seem to cover a tiny speck regarding the missing gap by Van Riper (and others). As ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsNeurological & BrainStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

On a scale of one to ten how bad are we talking? Mine is about a one, but what holds me back is my confidence. Stuttering has robbed me of that even though I barely stutter now. I have what you might ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
2 points

If your speech is causing you that much anxiety and depression, why don’t you speak to your doctor about getting you onto anti-anxiety medication to help you at least address the anxiety around your s...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking TherapyPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
7 points

Yeah but how do you do that when every conversation you have, never turns out how you want it to. Every joke you tried to make is a 50/50 dice roll of it falling flat. How can I be able to hear myself...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 12, 2025
38 points

Seeing the interest fade as soon as you stutter

Seeing the interest fade as soon as you stutter I been randomly walking downtown by myself on a Friday or Saturday where all the bars and clubs are (don’t ask me how I ended up their) And attractive...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentRepetitions & Prolongations