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commentr/StutterNov 18, 2025
1 points

Heightened anxiety and adrenaline can cause surges in dopamine, which can further exacerbate speech blocks and dysfluency, especially in stressful speaking situations such as meetings/presentations et...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2025
24 points

this is more than stutter. i sense severe anxiety issues or other mental health issues. seeing a doctor to check for social anxiety issues would be a start. and both of you sound like you need good t...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & PsychologicalTherapy Experiences
postr/StutterNov 17, 2025
1 points

Stutter on certain sounds and anxiety on meetings.

Stutter on certain sounds and anxiety on meetings. I stutter on 4 or 5 particular sounds.if those sounds are not required in a conversation.i can speak freely. But its hard for me speak in meetings (i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
4 points

Hey, I appreciate you being honest about it. Even I feel that she really needs to stand up for herself and not always make her stutters and anxiety dictate every moment of her life. Encourage her to s...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
40 points

Okay, I have a few comments to make about this. First, I understand your frustration, and I'll give you some grace regarding your wording here. However, I have to point out that you don't come acros...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
1 points

Felt this 😭 the added insecurity makes the stutter worse and creates a more fortified negative feedback...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
1 points

I used to stutter a lot when I was a kid. I was mocked and joked about in school every day; I think the other kids just found that funny or out of place; I was an easy target for the bullies. It took...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2025
1 points

Depends. If I'm focusing - which is most of the time - then no, but when I encounter irl Spanish speaker's, it's a nightmare, esp cuz they talk so fast...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
4 points

I remember when I first met my partner, she thought my speaking was really interesting and beautiful. She never thought I stutter that much. When we talk, she always listen, and since the day we met, ...

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Listener ReactionsValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
2 points

I'm in the same boat. Recently defended my PhD dissertation (i posted my story here) and since then, my mind has been occupied and I stutter more than the days before my defense. Sometimes, I feel whe...

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Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
9 points

Good on you for seeking advice on how to understand and deal with a stutterer. All I can say is give them time. Don’t look at them funny or judgemental. Maintain eye contact even though you might fee...

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Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterNov 16, 2025
11 points

Looking for Advice: Dating/Socializing Someone with a Stutter

Looking for Advice: Dating/Socializing Someone with a Stutter Hi everyone - I recently went on a first date with someone and when they arrived they started stuttering a lot. It was a first date and I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
9 points

People don’t understand the true disability side of stuttering. I’m not gonna sit here and compare it with the likes of other physical disabilities. However, stuttering can be hidden and may be mistak...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
3 points

All the time buddy, I’ve dealt with this my whole life…. You should see their faces when I say I have an undergraduate degree in engineering with distinction…. Their minds are blown and then often the...

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Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
1 points

Whatever works, works. We don’t really get to choose how we adapt but we gotta get through everyday and that’s enough, the thought of the constant mental battle and every social interaction feels like...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
2 points

That's a difficult question and I'd like to probably answer no. However according to my therapist I have been known to disassociate quite a bit....

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Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
1 points

Are you more anxious about stuttering or other things in your life...

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Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 16, 2025
16 points

My stutter is getting worse and I don't know why

My stutter is getting worse and I don't know why For a long time I thought I had my stutter pretty much nailed, still happened but it was more of a rarely thing. However recently I have noticed it bei...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2025
3 points

Actually, yes, I'm a very extroverted person who loves being around people all the time and large friend groups. However, my stutter led me to develop almost social anxiety, where it is very energy-co...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterNov 16, 2025
19 points

Why do people assume I'm dumb because of my stutter?

Why do people assume I'm dumb because of my stutter? I wonder if anyone feels the same, but from my expirience people tend to treat me like I'm dumb or less serious when I stutter. I have had people ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more