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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
5 points

I am 25 male and currently struggling a lot due to stammer. I don't understand the concept of "acceptance". How we can fight stammer, if we already accepted our defeat ?...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
5 points

For me this is a treadmill. I am running towards acceptance but each time i ease off I slip towards sadness and stagnation....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

Just got married 4 months ago! Life is what you make of it. Some women love the Halo Effect too though...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
6 points

We're nearly the same age. It's never to late to change your path. In fact, you may be on a the very common U-curve of happiness path. The U-curve of happiness describes how many people’s life satisf...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
5 points

I took the left path! I preached a 25 minutes sermon at my church without a single bout of disfluency! Self acceptance is the key to unlocking fluency....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

In my first point, I explain that stuttering can tire me out physically and mentally. It’s therefore logical that I try to reduce it, no matter how I choose to look at it. And i'm perfectly fine with ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationEnergy & Biological RhythmsAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
6 points

The 'it's not fair!' thinking is part of the 'self-pity' trap that so caustic to our mental health and wellbeing. No matter who you are, there is always someone who is better off \*and\* someone who i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
3 points

Yep. Been there, done that. Anxiety and second guessing ourselves and being hypersensitive to people's reactions is a major factor in stuttering. I've found that addressing this anxiety to be far, far...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
16 points

Mine inbetween. I have accepted and working on it, yet it's upsetting to struggle a lot for what others have by default...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
11 points

I always compare stuttering to being a short man. Like yes, its going to affect your life and there is no getting around that. But you just have to choose to play with the cards you were dealt. Choosi...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
2 points

It works for some people and it doesn't work for others. It didn't work for me. Have a long conversation with your speech therapist about their methods, proof of effectiveness of those methods, and ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
1 points

yeah i can’t lie i don’t care about my stuttering especially when i have more important things like moving out, getting a partner, having a good career...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2025
8 points

That's a great phrase, but I'd rephrase it slightly to 'control' and 'ownership'. As in, 'everything changes when we take ownership'...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
-1 points

They’re against it because stuttering is their whole life and fixing their stutter will take away their identity. Personally I’ve done the program and stopped stuttering myself. I’m happy it helped y...

Identity & DisabilityMeds & Substances
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

I never used Bill Parry’s program. I just used his research to help me find a pathway to fluency. As a speech pathologist and an expert in brain-based teaching and learning I was able to take the rese...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Research & ResourcesFluency TechniquesEnergy & Biological Rhythms+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

Got dumped after 4 years by a hot ass girl ( unrelated to stuttering) 2 weeks ago. Went to a gym and got a new girls number lmao. I stutter. You got it...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

You’re missing the entire point though. He literally states what he means by “cure”. He isn’t misleading anybody. He actually said it maybe 5 times within one video that he means cure because other pe...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
-1 points

I’m literally a 21 year old college girl with a stutter LMAOOO you make no sense...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
3 points

What worked for me over time was more of a mental shift, a more macro outlook than micro one. Rather than focus on the particular area, I would let it pass, try not to think about it and as that init...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
-2 points

Thats actually funny and a good idea. Cant stutter with someone who dont speak your language, also its not morally wrong in any way, people who dont stutter do it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride