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postr/StutterDec 6, 2021
11 points

Extract from Mastering Blocking & Stuttering by Bobby G. Bodenhamer

Extract from Mastering Blocking & Stuttering by Bobby G. Bodenhamer The primary secret of stress management for you is to learn how to avoid sending the “danger!” message when you face a physical ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
5 points

How much is your stutter affecting your confidence in the interviews? I'd hazard a guess that's the reason for your lack of success more then the stutter itself. If you go in with the attitude of "ye...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterDec 6, 2021
13 points

Job Interviews

Job Interviews Hello, I graduated college a year and a half ago with a degree in Graphic Design. Not to be conceded or anything, but I was always the best in my classes and my portfolio is very good. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
1 points

How? I feel so demotivated when I stutter because I can tell people judge me for it over what the actual content of my speech. Do you just own it and act like you don’t do it? How do you act confident...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
2 points

turning 18 in a couple of months. and my country is conservative as fuck so i don't get to see the "opposite" sex often. i never get nervous around them or anything the only thing i worry about is if ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
7 points

Worst part is that sometimes people think they’re side of the argument is more valid or that they must be right because I can’t articulate my point very well if I’m upset. My mom and I used to argue...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
1 points

I wouldn’t in person, the smell might get you and that’s bad news bears. Over phone or Skype works for me, I always have a hard time verbalizing my thoughts (high stress situation or not) unless I’m p...

Meds & SubstancesCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
2 points

An old ex i had (know her intentions were pure but i felt judged and different and just hurt ) she showed me her history ( we were doing bets ) and she forgot she searched shit like how do I deal with...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
3 points

not currently, i mean when i tend to talk to someone im interested in or someone new in general i need a while to improve my fluency around them....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
5 points

Personally it's the thought of being judged that worsens the stutter, when im alone I never stutter but when I try and record something my stutter becomes so bad. about being passionate and relaxed I ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
1 points

well i hope the best for you, i tend to avoid conversation because i beat myself up for not joining in when i want too. I'd give you any sort of advice but we are both dealing with this together so, i...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
1 points

Thanks for chiming in! I’m really excited to improve my speaking. I’m sick of having anxiety, even just from a simple introduction to people....

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 6, 2021
9 points

New here..

New here.. I'm 34 years old and have been stuttering since third grade elementary school. Before that I had no issue talking except a lisp when I was like 7 years old. My oldest sister stuttered also ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
2 points

You're welcome! I think those are reasonable expectations. My confidence in group speaking has definitely gone up and my anxiety has diminished for sure. There has been some fluency byproduct. I th...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
1 points

Great info, thank you! And while I definitely don’t think it would completely cure my stutter, I’m hoping that by improving my public speaking skills, as well as my confidence, will eliminate at least...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
2 points

Although I stutter when I'm alone it goes up and down along with my social anxiety. I only know one other person in my family who stutters....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
3 points

Was in backseat once on drivers side with 4 of us in car and driver said I’m not hungry and pulled forward for me to order for rest. Ugggghhhhh that was painful....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
2 points

Thats the worse. I have this nightmare of a story. New highschool, new friends. I was the first one who had car. After school we all got into my car and went for the drivethrough, 4 people in the car ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
postr/StutterDec 5, 2021
22 points

Has anyone ever tried Toastmasters to help with stuttering?

Has anyone ever tried Toastmasters to help with stuttering? I’ve been stuttering since I was five. I’m nearly forty now and in a career where I have to sometimes give speeches, which for me, is mortif...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2021
10 points

The way the jury's looking at him, my biggest fear😭 then giving up before you're finished saying everything you wanna say, omg 😭...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages