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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2019
9 points

Your stutter is such a small part of you. I felt the same way you do at 23, but it will change as long as you don’t give up. I used my stutter as an excuse to not do things because I was scared, loo...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2019
16 points

Killing yourself is never the answer. Regardless of how stuck on the sidelines you feel or how damaged your social life may be killing yourself won’t accomplish anything. Don’t give up. Never lose hop...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHope & MotivationSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2019
1 points

Look how far you have come! That’s something I could never do (too stupid) but it sounds like you keep thinking your stutter is holding you back...but as I said look at how far you’ve made it! Tomorro...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2019
3 points

I know the feeling. It feels great. There will be up and down. I would reccomend practising so you get more good days!...

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commentr/StutterAug 14, 2019
2 points

I am 32 now and have been stammering since childhood. I had no friends for a long time but eventually made some after college and met my gf, now wife. I feel so lucky. I am recently taking cbd oil. ...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2019
2 points

Most of the people here understand what it's like and what it feels like to go through what you're going through, all I can say is that life can and will get better but it takes a lot of time and work...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2019
3 points

I've also felt like suicide is inviting. It is so hard to live with constant anxiety. I've fantasized about it many times over the last decade, but something has always happened to make me glad I didn...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterAug 13, 2019
33 points

Is “The King's Speech” a good movie to watch, for those of us who stutter?

Is “The King's Speech” a good movie to watch, for those of us who stutter? I've always avoided watching it, I'm not quite sure why. Maybe because I think that I would find it uncomfortable or somethin...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2019
2 points

First days are always the worst. Truly get you man!!. There was once a time when I couldn't get my name out and the teacher just asked me to sit down in class. After that year I normally started bunk...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2019
2 points

My first job was checkout at a local, popular grocery store. All the locals went there (not a chain). I was SCARED to say the least. But this was where my daily talking began to grow my confidence. I ...

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2019
10 points

Back when I was younger My first job was at Jamba Juice. I was scared shitless of serving the drink but my manager made me do it. I won’t forget that manager. Anyways. I find that as a stutterer if yo...

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2019
3 points

After reading your story it made me realize how many things I’ve been doing in the past years that has been effecting my speech in a negative way. I replace words that I know I’m not going to stutter ...

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2019
2 points

Certainly can. Have a look at the yahoogroup "Neurosemantics of stuttering". Plenty of inspirational stories there....

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2019
3 points

Normally the introduction part is the first like ~20 minutes of the lesson so maybe arrive in late and just say there was traffic or something? Or you could pretend to be sick in the nurses office unt...

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2019
3 points

Your story gives me hope, sooo thanks :D I also feel like the fear surrounding my stutter makes it worse, after my speech therapist couldn't help me anymore, she recommended me a psychotherapist and ...

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commentr/StutterAug 11, 2019
2 points

Yeehaw! Good job. I noticed when I am talking with people or successfully finish a presentation, I feel relieved and also energized. Keep going man... Don't let stuttering hold us back!...

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Hope & MotivationSeverity & FluctuationPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2019
4 points

Yes to all three. Additionally, not avoiding any words, sounds or situations even if I did feel fear. And actively pushing out of my comfort zones by doing things that I wouldn't normally do, and qui...

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commentr/StutterAug 11, 2019
6 points

So you joined a programme (the mcguire programme?) Read john harrisons book And did voluntary stuttering to reduce fear anything else?...

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commentr/StutterAug 11, 2019
2 points

You are on the right track. The way to stop being nervous is to talk more, stop worrying about stuttering, stop hiding, and accepting yourself as a stutterer. Find a support group. Volunteer, find peo...

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commentr/StutterAug 11, 2019
3 points

I shall save you my fellow stutterer!!!! The answer is simple my friend. What makes you stutter? Find out which situations make you stutter the most and put yourself in those situations. If you end t...

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